my bf and i are on a break he is the one that wanted it,
and its just space like we cant sleep with any one else or any thing but i feel so paraniod because he turns his phone off half the tym nd i know his got a new car nd is prob working on it..
but im freaking out its over kinda thing...
wat do i do?
pls be nice
2006-10-03 21:02:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it sounds like you might be suffocating him a little and he needs his space. LEAVE HIM ALONE FOR A WHILE. If not you going to loose him in the long run. The phone is off for a reason. Most importantly, you really should get a self help book. I'm being really sincere. People depend on others too much, and it's not healthy for either person. Your not only going to loose him acting this way, but also every other guy. So learn how to DEPEND on you. If you can be happy with who you are, you wont be worried about him all the time. Learn to trust. If he's going to cheat, you cant stop it, just find out the truth and leave his ass. It's a old saying, but no one can love you unless you love yourself. GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
2006-10-03 21:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Richard A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, call some friends and have a girls night. Rent some movies, pop some popcorn, do each others hair and nails, have fun and forget about him.
You guys have broken up, not taken a break but broken up. It is not easy to face or to move on so quickly.
In fact many scientist say that it is like trying to stop using drugs. The love you had cause chemical changes in your body, now that your fix (boyfriend) is no longer there, your body is going through withdrawal. It sucks, it hurts but you can make it!
2006-10-04 04:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by DutchApplePie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time!!and dont msg or call him to much.maybe he really just needs some alone time.i know it is really hard not to talk to the one u love so much,and the break makes u probably thinking about him even more.but you would push him more away from u when u dont give him the space he needs now.and if u miss him so much then do msg him that u miss him,but that should be it.dont write more then that, and dont do it to often....
dont worry to much and use the time he is not with you to do things for yourself or spend time with friends´..
i hope things will work out for you!!!!!!
2006-10-04 04:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that this is probably the last thing u want to hear, but forget about him, he's not worth it. If he wants to break up, let him. And cheer up & put on a sunny smile. Your life is not revolved around somebody else. It is YOUR life, so make the best of it.
2006-10-04 04:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by zaazpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T FREAK OUT! IT COULD BE THE CAR OF SMTH ELSE COMPLETELY INNOCENT. YET, BE PREPAIRED FOR THE WORST. U WERE THE ONE ASKING FOR A BREAK, U PROBABLY DIDN'T NEED IT. U R EITHER HEAD OVER HEELS IN LOVE WITH THAT GUY OR U HAVE A VERY STRONG POSSESIVE FRRLING TOWARDS HIM. JUST WAIT UNTIL HE CALLS U.
2006-10-04 04:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this opportunity and chill. Do some stuff on your own and don't let him see this bother you. It could just be a test. Don't freak out, everyone needs their space.
2006-10-04 04:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would anyone need a "break" in a relationship for God's sake?! I really think that you should give him the boot!
2006-10-04 04:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by SALLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out a bit. You sound like you are becoming obsessed with him
2006-10-04 04:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by Chief BaggageSmasher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never agree to break time. You get more than what you asked for.
2006-10-04 04:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some pride girl... don't ever call him again... go out and meet other people.
2006-10-04 04:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋