My sister gave me a letter from a guy who said to give it to me. It was a really romantic love letter which really swept me off my feet. Well, the thing was I didn't know if it was genuine, it sounded like him but I dunno if it was real.
The next day I showed my friends, they thought it was so sweet but think it may be a prank. They decided to steal the letter from me and go up to the guy and ask him if he wrote it. They said they asked him and he said "what letter? Can I see it?" while they were standing there and he was reading it, he was just cracking up laughing and in the end said no. They said they are now so sure he wrote it. I have liked him for a while and I have been reading it over and over again and if it wasn't him who was it? I had only talked to him a couple of times in school and talked to him for hours on MSN. What does this mean? What should I do? I have liked him for a while, my gut says it is from him. Does it sound like a prank? My sister said she got it from him
2006-10-03 20:52:46 · 23 answers · asked by Spastic girl! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah I am a teenager and this does seem immature. This guy is fine with just being friends with girls but when it comes to relationships he will be shy. To clarify it was not a group of friends it was 2 and I kinda expected him to deny it. I told my friends not to do it cause he does not know them and i wanted to do it myself. My sister would never have thought of such a good prank like this and yeah I am younger than her. I will have to face him some time soon as we have weekly SRC (student representative council) meetings together. The handwriting was very fancy and artistic and he mentioned he was into art in one of many conversations. Yeah i will be talking to him cause nothing is stopping me from being friends with him even though it may be a bit weird now. Any advice on how to face him?
2006-10-03 22:39:06 · update #1
Dear...we guys freak out whenever unconcerned people know what we want to have and not certain having it...your friends know about it...and he knows that...what do you expect...did I hear you saying denial...damn right...let put it this way...he may even deny that he has never seen you in his entire life before....
Next time...if you like something...please do not show the beginning and process...show them the end...but I hope this case is alive.
if could only dare to say...I thought this letter is from you...and I was happy so much so that I was reading it a lot and thinking of what would be next...i was really thinking that I am lucky person..., My Dear text him ...write him...or do anything to let him know how you reacted to the letter you thought he wrote....before any thing changed
2006-10-03 21:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Montel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people play mean tricks on younger brother and sisters. Most likely this guy did not write the letter. Very few men write flowery love letters. If he denied it then believe him and move on with your life.
It could be that you want it to be him for your mind is playing a trick on you. This is normal in your teenage years and it will happen over and over again. This also happens to some adult women. It is all normal but should be kept in check. A crush is nice but if the guy is not interested then look else where for a new crush.
2006-10-03 20:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by DutchApplePie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might have changed his mind if he gives you something and then denys it. Some people have bad memories or selective memories as well. Since you made a spectacle of the love letter if he really did write it he may have denyed it. You cannot tell. If someone writes you a love letter you should really keep it to yourself. You do have to ask yourself if he wrote it why would he give it to your sister and if she is your sister should you be able to trust her. I would then ask how old are you because it sounds like this is all imature teen stuff.
2006-10-03 20:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this 'guy' truly did write the love letter - why would he deny it?
Unless he had no intentions of ever giving it to you, then it probably is a prank, and by denying it - he is a liar!
Don't waste your time sister! Plenty more honest fish in the sea.
2006-10-03 20:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple of different explanations for this:
1. He really didn't write the letter, which means that I wouldn't be expecting too many more of those hour-long chats on MSN.
2. He wrote the letter, but was so embarrassed by your unbelievably idiotic friends that he is totally disgusted with himself for even writing it in the first place.
2006-10-03 20:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is a liar and is yanking your chain. I'd kick her Glass for effing with me and making me look foolish.
Slip some Nair in her conditioner or rub her tooth brush on the toilet. That sucks, and I'm sorry that it happened to you. It sounds like a prank a hater from school might pull on you. But your own sister??? I'd get her back. She sounds like she is jealous of you or thinks that it would be funny. It's NOT. She or one of her friends probably wrote it. If he laughed at you then I'd take that as a hint. Revenge is better served cold. Go Get Em'.
Get it on video and post on MY SPACE>
2006-10-03 21:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by meowzer mix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know but it could be that he wrote the letter and he was just embarrassed to admit that to your friends. Do you trust your sister? You should have asked him yourself, that would have been better. If he wrote the letter he would have said if you asked him when he was all by himself and none of your friends were around. Can't you ask him on MSN? if you're still talking to him.
2006-10-03 20:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by malteser*_* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he wrote it but his laughing which was caught by the fact that it was off guard between people and probably his friends made him to react that way because he does not want to be tissed or laughed at so he went into a defence mechanism and laughed at the whole thing as if it were not true. So did he write it? I doubt you'll ever know.
2006-10-03 22:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first if you and your sister are close she wouldn't have a reason to want to play you like that but then again it might have been a different guy then the one you thought it was ya never know and it could also have been this guy but you have to remember hun guys don't really like to tell women how they feel so he would most def deny writing that in front of your friends...try talking to him one on one and see if that helps but not on MSN that could possibly make it worse...and just a lil tid most of the time your gut is right you just have to believe in it
2006-10-03 20:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by punk_gurl4190 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-10-24 10:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋