Im 17,girl and have bro of 12. Yesterday he told me that whenever i touch him on the shoulders or anywhere or when im close to him he is getting a hard on....and i congratulated him for attaining puberty but he has no idea of it...I being very curious wanted to find out about this from him as i have no bf upto now since im coming from a religious family and im very restricted at home...
My bro asked me about the details of puberty and i just simply explained it to him but still he is not satisfied and wants to see it practically.I too like to experiment and see a male organ very badly...and i like to see my bro's one first and he too likes to see mind just to explore...what shall we do now?
2006-10-03 20:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's was o.k. to explore each other in the bathtub when you were very small, but now, it's out of the question. Yr. are a teenager, and certainly not appropriate behavior to engage with a little brother.
2006-10-03 20:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, stop what you are doing. Whatever your plans are, they should be put on hold. This is an issue for your parents, not you. If they are no help then another adult but not his teenage sister. You love your brother and care for him, this is normal but your plans can led down a road in which both of you will regret later in life. It can led also to jail time for you because you are older than him.
Do you want to see what the nude male body looks like? Look up an image of male bodybuilders or Michelangelo's Dave.
2006-10-03 20:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by DutchApplePie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you come from a religious family, wht you are thinking and planning to do is a sin, tht is an incest act, an anti-christ.
But if you both really want to try it, well the decision is on you both but that will surely ruin your future relation with each other.
2006-10-03 20:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jendralus 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would talk to my parents , I would ask to get into therapy. If you act on your curiosity it will be harmful to you in the future . There are boundaries and you must learn them if your parents are not teaching them . What is appropriate and whats not . Your questions and answers will come in time to you both as you mature . Be more than a sister . Be a teacher and teach him the right behavioral lessons. Put your thoughts away as well . This is your little brother your messing with. You want him to grow up knowing he was molested as a kid ....... Get real here ....If you have these thoughts yourself . Please get help...
2006-10-03 21:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry but at 17 you should know that's the wrong way to be thinking. And if your that religious you wouldn't be thinking thoughts like that at all. It's not right anyway you look at it.
2006-10-04 00:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you have not asked this question after doing what you wanted...
This will make you feeling guilty lateron or it will lead you to be incest for years to come. Lateron when you will marry will you accept your husband to have relationship with his sister???
If you think you can accept your husband then go ahead...
2006-10-03 21:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My young girl stop this trend , you are going astray.. If you continued in this route you will have sexual intercourse with your brother and at the end loose your virginity in a sinful way. Tell him the main thindgs and let him try with foreign mates in his age and you try to find your mate friend ( boys and girls).. ..
2006-10-03 21:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
grow up huney.. i know what mental stage ur going thru.. but remember hez ur bro.. whatever u teach him, will affect his future..and so the same thing applies for u. you want to know more bout these things explore the net.. find frenz who can help u. dont get into such things
2006-10-03 20:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DO NOTHING. This is WRONG. First your 17 he is 12 .That is child molesting!!!!! You can end up in jail.It is also called incest which is WRONG. Talking about it is one thing giving him a practical is totally WRONG.
2006-10-03 20:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just keep the feeling to urself ok..u defenitely dont want to have dat experient at a such young age..but,the decision is all urs..
2006-10-03 20:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by peace 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋