she's not what you thought was your "type" right away, but the more you get to know her, you realize you really dig her. And the major issue is she's married to your close friend. would you say anything?
2006-10-03 20:30:10 · 13 answers · asked by RAVEN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you were asking the guys here, but thought I'd interject...
It's the typical 'When Harry Met Sally' thing: No man can be friends with a woman he finds attractive without the sex thing getting in the way. I've been hoping for years that this isn't true because I don't want to think of my male friends thinking like that, but experience dictates it's truth unfortunately.
However, as much as we have proved that men pretty much just think with their penis' they do have a great sense of loyalty to friends - If it was me, and I had a major thing for a close friend's other half, I would keep it to myself and pretend the feeling went away. Losing a friend and messing up a marriage would be too big a price for me to pay.
Take Care
Lx
2006-10-03 20:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, stay away from married people, i know how it feels like but you can't keep seeing her and have this infatuation about her. what if your friend is attracted to your wife, and he tell it to your wife that he is attracted to her. It not really cool dude! just be friends with them and nothing more. Find a single woman for you to love and be happy with.
2006-10-04 03:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a male with self integraty i would even flirt with a married woman i look for rings on the finger first
2006-10-04 03:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by john h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes , and I would remove myself from the situation .If you were a real friend you would keep those feelings to yourself. Friends don't hit on their friends spouses . Think about if the shoe was on the other foot . How would you feel about your friend hitting on your spouse?
2006-10-04 03:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say your married, its not some fling or high school/college relationship.
2006-10-04 03:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and yes I did say something and she hasn't talked wrote or called me in two days, I even told her I wouldn't act on my feelings because she was married
2006-10-04 03:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by colvin0594 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. No. I would not say anything, because there would be nothing to say.
2006-10-04 03:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sciman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!! open ur eyes!!!shes married already, what do u really want...u want them to get mad to each other because of u.thats insane.
2006-10-04 03:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by jeayuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to make a mount out of a mole hill. Either i want her or dont..that's just it.
2006-10-04 03:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never have those thoughts about my friends wife. period.
2006-10-04 03:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by Goblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋