2006-10-03 20:02:10 · 17 answers · asked by lovegal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best and most mature way to end a relationship if it isn't working right is simply talking over it. Talk about it.Tell him, the problem and that you think the probable solution is ending it up.You might also to try to have a free time alone..I mean you can tell your partner to give you space for a while so you can think about what's happening.It is also a sign of respect for each other. Hope this helps. God bless
2006-10-03 20:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very tough one; especially if one or both have deep feelings. Realize whatever you say, it can end right on the spot. With that in mind, gently tell him/her how much they mean to you.
List their qualities, some funny or romantic memories etc. Then test the water & bring up something that bothers you. Even hold their hand if you want to. Uhm forgot have a goal first-break up quickly or leave a hint & then break up the next time you see them.
Depends on how long you dated them...and/or their personality. Either way, I'm no expert & maybe the most direct way is to go.
You can also get creative...create a hand written card & decorate it. Yeah sounds fishy but if they meant that much...
Lastly, don't just be mean, cold & harsh. They are a human being & respecting them as such goes a long way in you growing as a human.
They spent time with you & valued you as a human. Return the favor. But don't dice words if you don't want to see them again.
Good luck!!!!
2006-10-03 20:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when you know that a relation has no future it actually has died out. It goes on like an empty shell; both of you know that it's over but the acceptance of the fact creates insecurity so it takes courage to accept the truth. If you want to end it you know what to say and how to get over it.
Hope you get over it soon and move on; take care.
2006-10-04 10:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by coolricky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Courage. End it. Don't drag the other person through the mud anymore - just because you don't think it has a future doesn't mean the other person feels the same. You don't want to hurt someone anymore than you have to - and the longer you wait the more it will hurt.
2006-10-03 20:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 04:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You NEED to end it. Seriously. I stayed in a relationship for 3 years after I knew it was over. I lived with the guy. I kept leaving and he'd keep crying so I'd keep going back. He was abusive though. That's part of control is the crying and threatening suicide. Get out as fast as you can.
2006-10-03 20:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, start spending less time with each other gradually moving away and finally have 'the talk' explaining to your partner that things just arent working out that well and both of you would be better off when you are seperate. There would be tears, there would be yelling but I guess that's how it goes.....
And DONT tell him/her that you're gonna call when you're not. It'll only hurt more.
2006-10-03 20:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by Monika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and honest. tell your partner what is your expectation from this relationship and what is your goal/plan and what is your observation. If the partner doesn't make an effort to he listen to what you say or any ideas he/she can keep, don't waste your time. it really depends on the situation, if you are just bored and he/she is not that bad, as violent or criminal or calling your names etc...maybe try and ask yourself. there is a lot of guys/girls to see but its hard to get what you really expect as a partner.Goodluck!
2006-10-03 20:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you cant picture a future with them, and that if your not 100% sure about them, then its not fair to either of you to keep on going. Show them why its right for you two to split.
2006-10-03 20:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the truth. I kno it's easier said than done but seriously it's the best way to go. It hurts but mostly broken hearts do heal. Good luck
2006-10-03 20:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋