its hurting me so much i loved him with all my heart and i dont know what to do, how do i just carry on when my heart is slowly dying. Someone please help me I miss him so much
2006-10-03 20:01:33 · 13 answers · asked by destiny 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will be ok. It takes time, it takes will power, and it takes a lot of personal rebuilding. But you will be ok.
The first week or two sucks alot, but it gets easier gradually thereon out. Get ice cream, call friends, be prepared to cry alot. But I bet you will find, in a month or two, that it was probably for the best. Good Luck!
2006-10-03 20:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can heal. I know it sounds corny but this will make you stronger later. Take this time to find out the things that interest you. Go back to school or get a hobby..something that you are passionate about. Do not let the universe regret you. You do not have to save the world but just make sure you have an overall happy life. You are in control of your own happiness.
2006-10-04 03:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by pyt_tlc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time to open up a new chapter....you have to be strong, things happen for a reason...you can't let yourself carry on like this....you may miss him, but all that's left are memories look back on the good times...give yourself a reason to smile again....stop closing up on how you feel thats why your heart feels like it's giving out...because your not letting it out...i don't know what happened between you and your ex... because you only gave out so lil info...but you must pick up the pieces and move on, life is too short...you can't let someone else's actions stop you from living...pray to god and he will give you strength....it may not come when you want it too but it will be there on time when you least expect it...hope all is well...and i wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-04 03:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart will heal! Please believe this! You might always love that person but in time you will be OK! I promise! You carry on because you have too! Stay strong! Keep busy doing something! Someone told me once that you really never get over it, but you learn how to deal with it!! You will be OK!!! Have faith! Take care!
2006-10-04 03:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by TBONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what happened. Just allow yourself to mourn this loss, the death of this relationship. Listen to sad music and cry and remember the good times and when you feel stronger you'll wake up and realise you still have your whole life ahead of you and there is someone else out there for you. You are not alone
2006-10-04 03:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by sexy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have reached a place where every one drops by sometime or the other. it hurts, yes. but time's a good healer. people learn to forget somthings. take life as it comes. no one is born happy lives hapyy and dies happy. stay cool, calm and bend rules.
2006-10-04 03:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by Vishnoo N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have something to do all the time, hang out with your friends as often as possible, get an interesting hobby...and eventually start dating again....it also helps if you write down all your feelings, if you dont feel like sharing them with someone...
2006-10-04 03:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look! the wholeworld is out there waiting for you!!!!!!!!!!!! Dont waste an oppurtunity to grab somethingelse.............something better perhaps.Cry ........cry as much as you like.when you cant cry anymore,look out of your window.watch the happy birdschirp about.take it from me, it is a lovely experience.dont worry be happy.
2006-10-04 03:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by Sharmi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pray..pray hard. At this point in time, no one can ever make things okay for you..none other than God. God bless
2006-10-04 03:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to My Chemical Romance and become an emo kid. Its the new fad, YAY!
2006-10-04 03:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by nick n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋