we had a longterm relationship and up to the point wer planing 2 get married dis coming december. bt ders 1 prob. she cheted me twice, but still i love her a lot.. is this a sign 4 me to leave her?
2006-10-03 19:46:10 · 25 answers · asked by kristine-ave 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First time she cheated on you, shame on her. Second time she cheated on you, shame on you because you're still with her!
2006-10-03 19:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ash Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not provide much information on this. But my take is since she has cheated you twice, there is tendency that she will do it again. If you are willing to accept her cheatings, then by all means stay with her. However, if I were to be in your position, I would rather leave her. Furthermore, you only mentioned she cheated you twice, but who knows is it really only twice? Who knows she has been cheating you all these while. So please investigate the matter in details before deciding.
2006-10-03 19:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Pureskill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but if she has children that dont resemble your "blood line", I would really be seriously questioning the parentage every time she "gets with child"...
If she cheats on you again, you may as well stand in the road, and unwrap that sign about your head that says "sucker" and let everyone run you down on the Social highway...
She will not be faithful in marriage if she cant be now.
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-10-03 19:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to go away her. once a cheater continues to be a cheater, relationships are all about being honest and trusting one yet another, in this sitch ur gf isn't being honest, she's probable taking income of you, letting her destroy out with it and last together with her, so then she says each and each of the 'i think so undesirable, i think so depressed, i theory you've been gona go away me' junk. you could't enable her bypass like that, this female isn't worth for you, you deserve a woman better dependable and honest in course of you, i guess you may want to call that female a participant, she probable makes up excuses about why she did it, if she became extremely sorry she does no longer have went as a lot as that adult adult males room or would have enable both of them made out together with her no matter if she became worried that they'd harm her, please do no longer stay with this female as she's probable hurting you, she will be able to carry on like this,
2016-11-26 01:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did she cheat on you? What did she do?
I would suggest you talk to her about it. Ask her if she loves you and stuff. It might just be a misunderstanding. If it isn't then... Perhaps you should leave her. But I really suggest you sit down and just have a heart to heart talk. It might clear up problems, or it could backfire. Best of luck to you!
2006-10-03 19:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Just Somebody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only leave her if you don't like being cheated on. If you are fine with her cheating on you then by all means stay together but she will never stop cheating on you.
P.S. - When you say she cheated twice what you really should say is that she cheated at least twice.
2006-10-03 19:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by dullorb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what part of being with a cheater sounds good to you.
Marriage is a huge commmitment and part of the vows is to be faithful to each other- it sounds like she is not marriage material.
You might love her but that doens't mean you have to be with her. Sounds like you need someone you can trust.
I wouldn't put up with one time cheating let alone two.
2006-10-03 19:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cheats on you now, think about what it will be like if she does it to you in the marriage and you have kids. You don't want that for your kids. Make the split now and find a woman who will honor and respect a commitment to you.
2006-10-03 19:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes apparently the phrase once a cheater always a cheater is true. There's too many fish in the sea dude. Dump her.
2006-10-03 19:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by locatorchic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a sign. It's TWO signs !!
This marriage hasn't got a snowballs chance in hell! Love ? Open your eyes first before you commit to this wandering floozy.
2006-10-03 19:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the end of the day if theres no trust theres no way you can make marriage work so rather just postpone the wedding till you and your fiance can talk this through and till you know in your heart that what she's promising is sincere
2006-10-03 19:57:11 · answer #11 · answered by swt chik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋