are all guys assholes no matter what the mindset is it seems like a good man is impossible 2 find when it somes 2 being faithful .boyfriend betrayed my trust and cheated i tried 2 look past it but everytime i see him i think of that.what do i do?
2006-10-03 19:27:36 · 11 answers · asked by angeleyez03_2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your decision lies with you , because it depends on your feeling towards him , his conduct towards you and whether the cheating was ionce or repeated.. However if he is good , loves and respects you there is no a big problem perhaps it was only an adventure and nothing more and you should take the matter easy and forget it.
2006-10-03 19:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 03:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by leinen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to find a good man but it could take a while to find one because they are rare. The problem is , would you find a good man exciting? Sometimes we subconsciously believe we don't really deserve a good man and when you find one, you get bored with him really fast. Have you found this to be true in the past? Perhaps if you worked on loving and appreciating yourself, you would find nice guys more attractive.
2006-10-03 19:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie Poo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question you should be asking is 'why are you attracted to the a s sholes in the first place?' You need to find a good guy... not the a ss that is going to treat you like crap... get your own head straightened out first before you blame others...
2006-10-03 19:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by pro_steering_wheel_holder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with the cheater should be the smartest thing you could do and it should make you shudder with horror to think you could of married the guy.
2006-10-03 19:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any person with a dangly bit will give you trouble. Isn't it a pity that most women are looking for trouble
2006-10-03 19:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to walk through doors, then close them and lock them, then throw away the key!
2006-10-03 19:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you really do want to dump him deep inside, you wont feel like TOO much of a wreck... and just explain your reasons, and if you want to still be friends (i know its the oldest one in the books) but just say that u still want to be friends and stuff
2006-10-03 19:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to his face.....tell him you just cant look past what he did...and who could blame u..he betrayed you. Things dont have to be messy...it just depends on how u both can handle it.
2006-10-03 19:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, its hard to quit. leave him before he leaves you, both will be a mess, but on ur part, u leavin will be easier on u.
2006-10-03 19:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by kpop_singer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋