We had been out clubbing the night before and I stayed at his house with my girlfriend and his girlfriend. I got up to have a shower the next morning and accidently walked in and he was in there and his girlfriend was talking to him. He had always bragged about how massive he was and how he was such a big man so I obviously thought he was hung like a horse but he wasn't. It wasn't very big at all and once I accidently saw it i sort of looked again because I wasn't expecting it to be so small. Now he is acting differently around me. He has gone the longest without bragging in a long time and he is being nicer to me and not so arrogant. I don't mind that much but something as simple as that has changed our friendship. He has a really hot really nice girlfriend so he has nothing to worry about but it is just weird. Do you think he will just go back to normal after a while or will it stay like this forever?
2006-10-03 19:02:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't over analyze this. We all get a little embarrassed every once and awhile. Just cause you were checking your buddy out doesn't mean anything, right? Maybe he thinks you liked what you saw. Better get it out in the open. Sometimes time is not the answer. Good old -Hey I'm not hot for your junk is called for. Do what you got to do Pal..
2006-10-03 19:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make a joke of it. If you're really good mates it should go back to normal. If you ignore it though, there may always be an awkwardness to your friendship. Give him a hard time, I thought all blokes had sneak peeks at the tough anyway?!
2006-10-03 19:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tiijah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things will probably return to normal after he gets over feeling embarassed. Act as though nothing has happened. Never bring it up. If he does, just be cool about it. Let it die.
2006-10-03 19:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men who have a need to brag are insecure about their manhood ... you caught him with his pants down and i doubt he will brag in the future in your presence. you know too much.
dont make a joke about his insecurity or size though, that will end the friendship.
2006-10-03 19:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THings may cool down after a while. Don't worry
2006-10-03 19:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a one big bragg head, but he will not dare with your presence, you knew too much. Stay cool. Because now his head is at your feet.
2006-10-03 19:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kolibri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When peoples shortcomings are, inadvertantly, put on pulic display, there's alwas a period of withdrawel and remorse. Relax. He'll get over it.
2006-10-03 19:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry,he's a natural braggart & will surely return to braggin'!
2006-10-03 19:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as his size goes... he may be a grower, not a shower
2006-10-03 19:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by Astro Gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋