my boyfriend just dumped me. and now 5 minutes later he calls and asks me to be FWB (friends with benefits) instead OMG!
why do guys do this??? T^T *sniffle
2006-10-03 18:42:09 · 23 answers · asked by kpop_singer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BECAUSE HE JUST TOLD YOU LIKE IT IS... sex is all he wants and i bet he wants to do it with other women too that's why he broke up with so - no string attached what they call it
2006-10-03 18:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. JSV 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys do this so that they can make sure they get some between relationships.
It is rude and he is acting like he can treat you like a doormat-
Tell him the friends part is ok in the future- but for now you need some space and time away from him- and he will never get benefits.
2006-10-03 18:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by newrabbit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No no no. Don't go there!! Please tell him to get lost. I know it is very hard and I know you would do anything to be with him right now. But he does not deserve you. Show him that you are better and make him want you so bad. He wont take you back i you become his FWB. He wants to see other girls and use you on the sideline. Please dont do that to yourself!!!!
2006-10-03 18:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by Spokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it girl! To many feelings will be involved. Don't set your self up for a bigger heartbreak. Just be friends with no benifits. It is going to be hard but alot easier then with benifits. Best of luck hon!
2006-10-03 18:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Nattie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have been expecting from the beginning is question.
If you choose some fancy guy you got it. Next time pick up somebody more mature.
And not everybody are like this piss of s...t.
2006-10-03 18:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. It sounds like to me he wants his cake and eat it too. Wouldn't it be nice if we good still have what we want from one person while testing out everyone elses water? Don't waste another minute on him. He's selfish.
2006-10-03 18:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by nj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They sure have BA%%% huh! You need a shoulder sister I am here fly out to Az hang by the pool do some niteclubbing FORGET him
2006-10-03 18:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by Agent99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have the answer for why someone would do what he did, other than he's an *** hole....my advice....DON'T DO IT!!! Do not lower yourself to that friends with benefits thing. Don't go there!
2006-10-03 18:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like this, but unfortunately, most are and they are the ones that give a bad name to guys...
2006-10-03 18:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by CBRRider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do that so they can still have sex with you, but now they're free to go have sex with other people too. Tell him no way and move on.
2006-10-03 18:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋