Communication gaps?

Question

Hello folks,
It's really good to see many people helping out others in many regards.
I eventually got a problem,I get tensed when I speak to girls and that would result in a huge communication gaps. I would like to overcome this behaviour.I need suggestions and help with this matter.

Answer 1

this happens mostly on lack of self-confidence on us ..

there r lot of courses onhow to improvecommunication skills u just attend it wil b usefu in ur studies as well as in career best of luck

Answer 2

First of all RELAX! I can tell you were nervous just writting this question. We women most of the time do most of the talking so if given a chance, you may not have to worry about gaps in the conversation. A few key questions to ask might be: What's your name? How have you been? How was your day? after you get the specifics out of the way you should be well on your way. Don't over think what you want to say. That's were we all make our mistakes. Putting to much thought into what we want to say. Sometimes you miss opportunities. your know. Calm down, take a deep breath and RELAX.

Answer 3

Flat out, more you speak with girls, the better off you'll be speaking with girls. Takes practice though. I bungled years of conversations throughout high school and I still bungle them, but because the majority of my friends are female I've become reasonably skilled at talking to them. Maybe not so much as Casanova, but it's fun anyway. I would recommend you involve yourself in an activity often associated with estrogen. Acting is great, singing is okay but not in an all guy choir. Band is pretty good too. Foreign language clubs are superb!

Answer 4

.Just relax! The whole thing about meeting girls is that its always seems to be a lack of confidence. You need to learn to like yourself before you start liking anyone else. Why? ecaus eif youdon't like yourself, you are just looking for approval from people constantly, which when you finally meet a girl that you can talk to, you will only be doing things for her instead of having it a shared effort.

my best suggestion is to wear some nice clothes, you don't have to go nuts spending money. clean up a bit. put some time into how you look. remeber that no one is better than you. eveyone is unique in their own way. never look down on a girl you are talking to. being confident is good, but cocyness is a turn off. make sure you listen to what they are saying too. women look for good listeners. just don't pretend you are listening though.

just be yourself over all. have a positive attitude and you will attract positive things into your life. good luck!!

Answer 5

perhaps you are too conscious about what they think about you, which will make the conversations more difficult bec you keep on thinking what to say to impress them.

My suggestion is to relax and just be yourself. It is the best way bec anyway, you really need to be yourself to be comfortable in a relationship.

Everyone likes people who are naturally themselves. Really. Don't worry too much. People will like u just the way you are.

All the best!

Answer 6

forget about being conscious on whether she is getting your point or if you are delivering your message well. simply speak from the heart. i believe that if something is said with all sincerity, there is just no way that the message is not gonna get thru the listener.

Answer 7

Just relax, it sounds like you hype up the situation. A lot of times things arent as scary as you belive them to be. Just calm down, deep breaths, and be yourself, you cant mess that up!!! ;)

Answer 8

why do u get tensed..after all they are also Human beings..just relax and talk to them normally like the way u talk to any other friend of yours..

Answer 9

man i have huge communication gaps when i talk to guys ! we should meet :p

Answer 10

Just think to yourself, "What's the worst that can happen?"