i used to have a close relation with a guy,sort of a love relationship when we were about six years old, u knu kissin and stuff, then we lost contact and met again when we were 21 years and we hooked up and talked a bit, i believed the spark was still there and he said he believed it too, so we like made out a bit and it was really good, but since then he aint comunicating, wont answer my text messages and wont call but when i do call he answers the phone really nicely, i knu he has girlfriend but i cant seem to get him off my mind..please help.
2006-10-03 18:19:28 · 18 answers · asked by candypop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can only tell you that young love did survive for me. I met my husband when I was in Junior High School. We attended different universities, etc and our life took different directions for a while. My "young love" is next to me right now, happily marrried and deeply in love. We are parents of four and grandparents of one! Yes, young love CAN survive if it is meant to be.
2006-10-03 18:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Royallady1947 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot answer whether young love survives but I can say this:
I suggest you lay low and avoid contact, I think he's doing the same - he's in a relationship already. Neither of you probably expected to ever see each other again and whamo- this happens. Just like cocaine- it feels so great but damnit the sideeffects (or the cost of even getting it) hits like a mack truck.
But it seems to me he has already moved on, and you must do so to. Cut all contact as well, and ruthlessly guard your mind from having thoughts of him. go on a mental diet if you will - for 7 days whenever an image of him creeps up in your head, say "STOP" or "DELETE", if that doesn't work you fail~ start over.
in the meantime, get back into the dating game, and think only of moment and what you want, need and deserve.
Thats my best advice
damn, at 6 years old....shiyet dunno whether thats a hell of an achievement or...damn...
2006-10-03 18:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by doufu_long 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. He has a girlfriend. He is taken.
I am a man. Although I sometimes fantasize about some girlfriend from years past, if given the choice, I would still chose my wife. That's the way it should be.
(My 7 year old son doesn't have a girlfriend. I thank my wife for not having a TV around the house. They don't get exposed to adult things. His only love are his pets, parents, and dinosaurs. I will miss it when he loses that innocence. So you actually kissed "n stuff" at 6?)
2006-10-03 18:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kitiany 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be such a cute story if you two end up together. =)
young love can survive, but it obviously has to be mutual. So he cheated on his girlfriend with you? That doesn't say too much for him. He probably just wanted to hook-up... which hurts you I'm sure. I know what it's like when you can't get someone you are crazy about off your mind. The only thing I can say is talk to him face to face about your feelings. It takes guts, but nothings impossible. I know a lot of guys suck at communication. Your best bet is to talk in person. Good Luck. =) keep your chin uP!
2006-10-03 18:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by Me. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you but I think this guy has moved on. I would be frank with him and find out if he is interested or not. Then you would know for sure and be free to move on. Pray about it and God will lead you to the right man waiting for you. Ask God what kind of man you need, read about him in God's word. Good luck and God bless.
2006-10-03 18:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Godb4me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he don't like you but just flirting. Don't go beyond the limit, you might be hurt in the end. You won't survive. Look for another guy who can give you full happiness. You will forget him if you have new someone in your life.
2006-10-03 18:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by vsg0818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is that young love can last but hardly ever does and if he doesnt answer your texts or doesnt really talk to you then i thik you should just move on. plus he has a girlfriend why would you mess with him? thats not cool but move on with your life its the best thing to do!
2006-10-03 18:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by munkieluv0110 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't torture yourself on the way to nowhere. Look on yourself and what to do to make the tomorrow as a bright as possible.
2006-10-03 18:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. He has a girlfriend. You need to move on and keep yourself busy.
2006-10-03 18:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it may be i think you should lay low. Because if he has a girlfriend you do not want to ruine it for him, and make him hate you for it
2006-10-03 18:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by lefty_miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋