The only way I've seen or known her is through one of my sister's friends. She often visits my court as one of her friends live down the court but I never catch them.
She always stares at me down the halls and holds a smile, I just don't know what to say and when I walk by without saying anything I really feel mad at myself about it later.
If anyone can please give me a rough idea of the perfect way to approach her I will appreciate it mostly! Please I don't want to lose this one.
She's a very shy girl and I don't want her to feel uneasy or uncomfortable when I approach her, Also she doesn't have many friends that are guys at all I guarantee she will shut herself out when I approach her. PLEASE HELP!The only way I've seen or known her is through one of my sister's friends. She often visits my court as one of her friends live down the court but I never catch them.
2006-10-03 18:18:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a "shy girl," I will be the first to say that you need to talk to her. Yes, smile, but start a conversation. Don't wait too long though, because she will start to think you don't like her. Alot of times shy girls have lower self-esteem than many so she will begin to think you are just being nice. She'll start to reason with herself as to why you wouldn't like her, etc... So I'd say move kinda fast, but dont be too overwhelming. That can be a bad mistake and she might see it as a turn off. But TALK TALK TALK to her!
2006-10-03 18:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by Yeahthatsright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm style of a shy individual till you get to be attentive to me. physique of thoughts the shy-er (shier? shyer? ehh!) ladies as you will possibly anybody else. Smile and be friendly because of the fact i like friendly human beings. It makes me sense like i'm able to open up too. i'm uncertain what kinda aid you prefer. while you're going after a shy lady, you will in all probability could commence the 1st conversations till she gets greater self belief around you. stable luck with whoever you're after! (P.S. collectively as you await greater solutions, prefer to income out mine?)
2016-10-01 22:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by greenwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems that if shes smiling at you shes not as shy as you think. Pay attention or askyour sisters friend what she likes or what intrests her and associate yourself .example:there is a kid that is really mean to everyone but you notice that just complimenting him about his favorite sunglasses or maybe that he is really good at something most arent softens his bite.associating with her intrests might just win her heart
2006-10-03 19:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by angie a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your sister to help you out. Maybe she can give you some good advice and help you meet that girl too.
2006-10-03 23:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try calling her then u dont hav to approach her and she cant run away and shut down. then maybe talk to her at school geet in with it ya know? b4 u start the real thing.
2006-10-03 18:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't hurt to start out small, next time you walk by her say hi and if she's by herself strike up a conversation. reach out to her, show her that you want to get to know her, get her e-mail or cell number maybe even chat online. hope this helps.
2006-10-03 18:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by taxman_ll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by returning her smile and a simple and cheerful "Hi".....
2006-10-03 18:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.be friendly first to her so hat she will be close to you...
2006-10-03 20:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by isaiah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋