i don't know what to do, i want to tell them that i love him but my parents won't understand that, and i don't wanna leave him, he is my soul mate my, best friend, my life partner, i just love him sooo muchhh
2006-10-03 18:01:10 · 12 answers · asked by cindyosita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're grown enough to make your own decision.
2006-10-03 18:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have accomplished a lot in a short time, and you are an adult now...so you can make the decision to see who you want without mom and dad's approval. They may never understand, they may never accept him- can you live with that? They may "cut you off" for a while, but if you keep on loving them..perhaps they will learn to accept what you choose and maybe respect you..later on. Are you willing to risk that?
The only thing I would like to ask is if this young man is motivated to improve his life/job/etc? If he is, he may end up earning good money (college isn't the only way) and make you proud! On the other hand if he is basically content where he is at, then you might get frustrated with him over the years, even if you love him so much now.
2006-10-04 01:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by atheleticman_fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime in life your parents don't always make the best decisions for us. you are older to understand that if you want to be with this guy then you should. there is nothing stating that we have to be with someone that makes more money than we do. look at it like this if you don't take your chances with him then you might miss something but of things don't work out between you guys then it was a lesson learned
2006-10-04 01:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by gsxr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart, and not your parents. Your parents want the best for you, and they don't know what the best is between you and your significant other. The only thing they can see is objects. A great job, a nice car, a nice appearance so on... I say stick with him if you really love him.
Good luck
2006-10-04 01:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love this guy and you want to be with him, what your parents think shouldn't be much of a factor. Your parents won't be with you all your life, your parents aren't meant to be your life partners, and you shouldn't feel like you have to live your life to their standards, you have to set your own. It's not easy to go against family, but I don't think anyone should ever let their family dictate who they will and will not be with.
2006-10-04 01:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then be with him. A job does not define a man, only how he lives his life.
Are you going to let your parents control everything you do in your life? If you let them decide this for you, why don't you just sit back and let THEM pick out your husband.
2006-10-04 01:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're at least in your 20's. Stand on your own 2 feet.
2006-10-04 01:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an adult, you have to make that decision for yourself. No one can be defined by their job. Once you stand up for yourself your parents will see that you are an adult and will respect you for following your heart. They should want you to be happy however it happens.
2006-10-04 01:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by Dcham81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents to get over it you are going to be with him, and if they still act childish let them, they will come around once the grandbabies start comming. Good Luck !!
2006-10-04 01:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are over 21 and on your own, paying your own way in life, than the only one you have to please is yourself. Your parents will come around....or not. All that matters is your happiness.
2006-10-04 01:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋