My brother who was using this account killed himself because his wife divorced him which he knew for all his life. they know each other since kindergarten (our parents were friends). I am really sad. Is there any way for me to feel better? I really miss my brother. I wish I could have prevented him from suicide.
2006-10-03 18:00:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2006-10-03 18:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tender Hearted 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry that your brother passed, But I know that feeling
it's a deep down hurting, Well when you go through something
like that I put it in God's hand he knows best, You never get over it
but in time it gets better, And yes thier was nothing that you have
done to have stopped it, things happen for a reason, it seems like
god takes only the good one's right,Well as for being sad you can talk to others about it, But it's you that will have to heal your own heart, and pray about it every night, He's watching over
you he is still with you talk to him tell him how mad you really are,I know I did let made me feel alot better, But I still pray and talk to mine it's normal, I"ll keep you in my prayers and God Bless.
2006-10-04 05:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by MISSIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It very sad. I can imagine how bad you feel. Suicide in the family brings guilt to all the family members. You cannot forget him you have to live with it. I am with you and I share your feelings . There is bright future ahead for you think about all the things you should do in the society. Once you are able to cope up with your grief try to help others who are undergoing the same. Last but not the least read Bhagavad Gita and it has all the answers for you which will greatly relieve you from the present crises.
2006-10-04 01:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all I am sorry for your loss, all I can tell you is that time will heal your pain. It won't make you forget, but you just realize he is in a better place now, and he is watching over you. You just need to grieve and get it out of your system and try to depend on you remaining family and friends for support. I would even talk to him on a regular basis and maybe one day he will let you in and let you sense his presence, especially when he knows you need him the most. My great grandma came to me about a year ago ,when I was suffering with a drinking problem that would have killed me, but she came to me one night and I have not had a drink in almost a year, she really saved my life. God Bless you honey and may you days get better. Just keep smiling, he would want you too. :)
2006-10-04 01:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There was nothing you could have done to prevent this. Just remember that. It will take some time to get used to the fact he is gone, you will never get over it. Give yourself time and dont lock yourself out from people, talk to friends, family someone that can help you deal with it. Maybe even seek counseling.
2006-10-04 01:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. my brother died a few years back and the pain is still there. the only thing i can tell you is that it hurts and the only thing that will ease that pain is time. im sorry that you are going through this. talk to someone and get your feelings out in the open. dont keep it bottled up because it becomes anger and stress....and that can shorten your lifespan. pray, put it in GOD'S hands and let it go.
2006-10-04 01:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by goldie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Males seem to be prone to suicide when they are really in love! I am sorry he made his choice to do so.
When you lose a loved one, only time can help you through it! Have faith and trust in God to help you through this!
A lost love one leaves a hole in you heart ( or an empty space) You will never for get them, try and remember the good times and the funny times.
2006-10-04 01:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to talk with friends and family for support. Know that your brother is in a better place and that he would not want you to be scared or upset, his death was not your fault. Also know that your brother is now watching over you, don't fear you will see him again. For now, talk to ones closest with you that can give comfort one on one. God Bless and you.
2006-10-04 01:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thank god for his life ask for his ex wife to be forgiven and know that noone dies until it is their time then leave it with god and move on with your life believe me my wife divorced me after 30 years and ive tried suicide many times and failed it is just not my time .
2006-10-04 02:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not blame yourself. You had nothing to do with his death, apparently your brother just couldn't deal with "life" but this was not your fault. Get some grief counseling. When my father died, even though it was a completely different type situation, I had a really hard time coping and I went to some grief counseling and it helped so much! I will pray for you.
2006-10-04 01:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and think of it has your brother is in a better place were there is no pain and sorrow. think of all the good times you two shared try surrounding yourself around family and friends. there is really no way to feel better this is a tragedy and try not to blame yourself somethings are out of your control. my heart really goes out to you and you will heal with time but you will never forget.
2006-10-04 01:12:00 · answer #11 · answered by latonya m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋