I promis i am not the crazy ex-girlfriend 2 start off
My Boyfriend ended things with me on Friday, I called him told him to come over to talk cause he hadn't returned my calls for about 4 days and I was going to end things if he was going to cont. 2 stress me out.
He told me he though we should break up because he said I was right in the beginning that we just got to college and shouldn't have jumped into a relationship and it had gotten so serious so fast it scared him (7 weeks) (not 2 serious)
anywayz his away message today said:
"You don't really know what you had till it's gone"
I kissed a boy on his floor the night we broke up kinda as a coping method because i spent about 2 hours crying over him.
I havn't had him on my mind for about the last 2 days cause i am trying to forget.
It is awful though cause inside i really miss him
should i talk 2 him?
Or does he win if i do... I don't want to be the phyco ex girlfriend
please answer nicely and truthfully.
2006-10-03 17:57:33 · 15 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is the exact away message
yes from the song
"It seems one thing has been true all along
You don't really know what you got till it's gone"
and i know it's just i guess i'm still heartbroken and heart break sucks...
2006-10-03 18:02:08 · update #1
Since he ended it, it's up to him to make it right. Going and trying to talk him in to taking you back puts you in a weak position and makes you look needy. The best thing you can do is go kiss that other guy again. Make yourself act like you really don't need your old boyfriend. When he sees you hanging out with other guys, he may realize he made a big mistake. But let him be the one to come crawling back to you.
2006-10-03 18:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by godeep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are still new. You haven't even given yourself a chance to get over him. You have only been with him 7 weeks and you said it yourself not 2 serious. You are in college and have a lot of experiences to look forward to. Don't limit yourself to one guy. Give yourself a chance to meet many different guys and discover what you want in a life partner. have fun! You are too young to get serious yet. Get your education first! You can talk to him and who knows you may end up being good friends. Be an adult and realize that in love and relationships there is no "winner or loser". You shouldn't be playing games with other people's or your own feelings. Stay friendly but look to meeting new people.
2006-10-03 18:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by Stephani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 22:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by greenwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is just ruff play' who knows whats is really going out. The message stinks like him. No respond is like kiss my " privet". What about is the game.? call him what about is the message to just get the answer whatever it is.
2006-10-03 18:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound very immature. Try growing up before you get "involved" with anyone. Moral people don't use people as a "coping method". ps. if he hadn't returned your calls for 4 days, he ended it, not you. Keep your pants on before you end up pregnant like all these other children!
2006-10-03 18:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should talk to him, if he says any rude comments then dont talk to him again, what could it hurt. But it could be the beginning of a new relationship. Go for it. You cant be hurt any worse by one conversation.
2006-10-03 18:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i can say, is that from my experience from boys, if you push to hard into their life, they are not to happy about it, so sort of tug him in like a fishing pole.
trap him by getting his interest then pull him in, jump out, pull him in and then maybe you'll see. good luck! it usually works for me.
2006-10-03 18:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Oi~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love should not have any ego it is not win or lose its love just talk to him probably he is only sulking and I think you will win him back.
2006-10-03 18:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't i-m him ride it out and wait till he i-ms you .he told you he didnt wanna be with you anymore.the message is to get your attetion but if he really wanted you back he would come looking for you .trust me let it ride
2006-10-03 18:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not try to call him again and talks like normal friends. the rest will come itself if it's meant to be.
2006-10-03 18:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by Cool Z 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋