Am I being Sexist with my Girlfriend when I don't....?

Question

....Hit her when she pushes me to my limit. If a guy pushes me over the line I have no problem cracking my fist over his face. But am I being old fashion if I don't smack my girlfriend when she tries me?

Answer 1

Let me assure u that men that hit girls are the ones who are insecure and most probably having anger management problems.
As per anatomy, men are stronger than women, so y do men pick on women, y don’t they look for someone of there own size?
It is also the case when siblings fight, the eldest will pick on the youngest, being sure that the end result will be in his favor.
Be sure that what hurts a woman most is when u ignore her. Let her push u to ur limit, then totally ignore her and tell her “when u r ready to listen and to speak about it like a grownup, I will be ready to talk to u again!”.
It will sound strange at first but as long there is honesty and loyalty in this relationship, trust me it will work between u like magic.
Moreover, on the long run u will start feeling uncomfortable if u had any tough or rough discussions coz simply u will be so much adapted to grownup headache free discussions.
Gradually u will find urselfs talking about a hell of stuff with details without having big fights.
It only requires some patients from u both till u adapt to the fact that u need to control ur temper and language through out the discussion.
Plz do discuss everything no matter how silly they might be, coz u will always maintain a clear and tension free relation with ur girlfriend and tell her to do the same too.
One of the real problems between couples is jealousy, which can be solved easily by talking about it rather than keeping it within their hearts.
Let her get the joy of knowing that u were jealous and on the other hand get the joy of not having this feeling again as she will always respect the fact that u have confessed to her about such thing, that so many couples avoid to talk about.

Answer 2

I think because many men do place a lot of emphasis on sex, that this is a common female viewpoint. However, I hope your girlfriend does understand that not all men are like this and that there are plenty of women who let their genitals think for them as well.

Answer 3

Hahahah... what do you tell a woman with two black eyes?


nothing, you already told her twice!


hahahahah. You are an asshole. But what goes around comes around. One day she is going to pick up the frying pan and crack you over the head and put you out for good. hehehee.

Answer 4

NO!!!!

you are not being sexist. That is called being a gentleman. If she dosent like it to bad. Dont scariface your morals because of something she thinks is sexist

Answer 5

A man should never lay his hand on a girl. Specially his girlfriend. Nothing to do with the fact she is a girl, but because she should be special to you, don't you think?

Answer 6

It's not sexist, it's simply a moral, like when you pay for a date.

Answer 7

How about learning some techniques to handle disputes, that don't involve violence, after all you aren't a cave man, are you?

Answer 8

it's not sexist its being a man ... you don't hit someone who goads you to do it ... if she's pushing your buttons push her back (verbally not physically)

Answer 9

All girls instinctively think you are a homo sexual if don't appear to be the type that can give a woman a black eye or two. Women love men who are imposing, threatening and strong...why would a woman want to be with a total wuss?
You don't have to hit her, like my friend Todd, but you have act like you will.

Answer 10

No. Tell her to keep her hands to herself and mean it. She is too provocative. Nobody needs that.