2006-10-03 17:48:22 · 12 answers · asked by Legend_in_progress 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls love to turn a bad guy into a good guy. They love a challenge and sadly good guys are just walk overs. Good guys are too predictable, obvious and act like wussies. Girls hate nothing more than a guy who acts needy and like a wussy. That's why girls often prefer men who are older than them cos they are men and not boys.The girls that want bad boys do cos they've never been screwed over before. When they get screwed over by enough bad guys they turn into women and start looking for a more appropriate partner, someone who will take care of them and a potential family. It might be good to be a bad guy temporarily but women eventually marry the good guys...
2006-10-03 18:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young women want excitement, and often good guys are the ones who play it safe and don't take chances. If you play it too safe you risk being boring. It is entirely possible to be a good guy and be exciting too. If a good guy pays attention to his looks so he is attractive, and acts confident and mature like a strong man would act, he will be attractive to women. And if that same good guy excels in at least one sport like rock climbing or kayaking or bow hunting or hang gliding or skiing... something that makes his muscles buff and shows he has healthy and robust interest in life, women will be interested in him. And if that same good guy can communicate well with women, and confidently converse with knowledge about current events and sounds educated without sounding self-absorbed and arrogant, he will attract women. Women like to know that a man will stand up for them and protect them if needed. That a man won't let anyone walk all over him, but will be manly.
And best of all, if that good guy is romantic and understands how to flirt and subtly seduce a woman so she feels he is really interested in her, and if he treats her better than any other man ever has and tells her he would protect her to the death, he'll get the woman.
My husband is a good guy, and he is all of the above. He was raised on a ranch, has a college education, is tolerant, masculine, intelligent, keeps up with current events, is protective, romantic, respectful, communicates well, helps around the house, and I'll never leave him. He is my dream man and I treat him very, very well because I don't ever want him to doubt my love for him.
In my opinion, good guys come out way ahead in the long run, so don't give up. Good guys are keepers and eventually a good woman wants a good man.
2006-10-03 18:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by LadyLgl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon what kind of a good guy! I mean I like a guy that is willing to be naughty sometimes, or should I say daring! I am a great girl but sometimes have to let it all go and be a teenager again, and go out and let it all go! I mean I just remember partying and having a great time, I want a guy that is willing to sneak out of work for a quickie once in a while, or a guy that is willing to have sex in strange places with me, a guy that can talk dirty to me! Sometimes the good guys just don't cut it for me! I need a good bad boy! I don't want a guy that hits me or anything I want a man that can treat me like a lady but yet get naughty with me sometimes and not always be a good boy!
2006-10-03 17:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by chrissiewild79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say they want a nice guy, and they swear that they'll never go out with another asshole again, but they keep goin back to the guys who treat them bad. It's just female instinct, they like being mistreated deep down. It goes back to the stone age, when cavemen used to hit women in the head with those big hunks of wood. Maybe they knocked a screw loose and it has affected all women since.
2006-10-03 17:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by BklynzWhitestRican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nearly everything is overlooked when you're the good guy, because you are also the boring guy, the predictable guy and most often, the NEEDY guy. So stop it and do the opposite. Be funny, cocky, and unpredictable.
2006-10-03 17:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by blastby2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women dont over look the good ones but the have been mistreated or they just dont believe it could happen to them.hang in there you will find a good woman who will enjoy being with one of the good guys.
2006-10-03 17:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like good guys........when I was younger I wanted the bad boy type but it is true, you grow outta that once you hit mid 20's.......but my quest for happiness is still in progress, only hope I find a good man to end it.
2006-10-03 17:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by KansasCityGirl26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LIKE GOOD GUYS!!! I can just never seem to find em because all the a****les get in the way.
2006-10-03 17:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Raven Sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they wont abuse them like they want to be. they go for the good guys in their mid to late 20's
2006-10-03 17:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most woman look the men that need there help. something they can fix someone who needs them
2006-10-03 17:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by ~Ms. Peaches~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋