how can i ask aguy that what i am looking forward is a serious relationship. I am dating now, but only twice. i like the guy coz i find him nice. i think he likes me too but dont want to expect too much on it. He said that he is not playing. i dont also want playing since im not getting younger. what i want is a serious relationship. i dont wann waste my time...how can i tell it to him?
2006-10-03 17:46:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to sit down with him and just ask him where he sees the realtionship going..if he says well honestly nowhere you need to move on but if he sees it going somewhere than tell him you're wanting to be able to be serious with him because you feel that you guys are ready for that level..
good luck
2006-10-03 17:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a suggestion, try writing your feelings down on paper first. Open up and speak from your heart. If you have a best friend ask her to read it and get an opinion. But this way you can practice what you want to say and see how you think it might sound before you actually talk to him.
2006-10-04 00:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've only been out twice ... it takes time to see if you are compatable ... don't jump into anything you'll regret later, just make sure that the men you date know you are only interested in long term relationships ... if they run then you'll know they didn't want that ... but becareful and be choosy!!
2006-10-04 00:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him how you feel. But expect nothing. When you learn to accept instead of expect, you will stop getting disappointed...
2006-10-04 00:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... easy gust brake up but a nice guy hard to do
2006-10-04 00:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sukie-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's worth it, reconsider and exercise patience.
2006-10-04 00:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell it like it is
2006-10-04 00:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by ......................... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him this question.
2006-10-04 00:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋