Why don't other people have true love? It always seems like it's only one person trying. WHY? I hope that everyone can have true love.
Everyone complains about the bad relationships. Mine is really good. Sure we fight, but I am so madly in love with my husband, even after 3 children. Sometimes I think that I'm unlike everyone else since they just complain about their spouses. I can't believe I thought I was happy before I was with him.
He calls me beautiful when I am mad. He attempts to help with housework. He is the perfect Dad. We hold hands. We hug. He is unlike anyone I know or have even heard about. When I am shopping, I buy things that I think he would like, or groceries to plan out his favorite meals. The kids and I plan out things to do for Daddy. He lets me sleep in. He tests my coffee to make sure it has the right amount of sugar.
Does anyone else have this? Why does everyone tell the bad stories and not the good?
2006-10-03 17:44:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
OH girl, i know how you feel. My husband and i have been together for 7 years ( married for 4) adn they have been the best 7 years of my life!! we are like newly weds. We still laugh and giggle, and do everything together...yet he doesnt complain when igo out with the girls. We are having baby # 3 ( in 3 years) yikes I KNOW!!! and he is sooooo good about it. amazing about the whole no sex thing, great with helping around the house.... hes a great dad and an amazing man. Some days he annoys me, but he charms me when he knows i am mad!! he is an amzing guy, and i am glad hes mine. If i ever lost him, i dont think i woudl marry again, cause he will always be the man i love, i cant imagine loving another man the way i love him!
2006-10-03 17:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by bangbanks72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you! I hardly ever find someone saying how great their husband is! Why is that? My husband is great! Im with you on the fighting-it just happens and without it marraige may be kinda boring. If he agreed with me all the time, then it wouldnt be a marriage of two people coming together.
Like you, we have 3 kids and he is a great father. He goes to sports practices and all of the games. He watches the kids and doesnt complain. No matter how bad or ugly I feel, he always tells me how wonderful and beautiful I am. When we fight, he always makes sure we are ok and that Im not upset. He does his share around the house (sometimes its not how I would do it) but thats his way, so its ok. He buys me presents, once he set the computer to go off and it said, "Look outside", and there was a beautiful plant sitting outside my door. He does things for no reason, and lets me sleep in on weekends. When I was pregnant, he wouldnt even let me make supper or do dishes, he would do it all when he got home from work.
I am glad that you are so happy and in love, because as far as Im concerned, its one of the best things in life.
2006-10-04 10:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by holly w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for 5 years (Our anniversary is this Friday) and we have been through a lot...3 miscarriages, our son almost dying at birth (He's now two and completely healthy) and we lost a baby girl at 21 weeks the day after our son's birthday, and we are still very much in love, but we also have our moments when we argue. We have only had one fight where we actually screamed at each other. We try to just work things out. He is a great dad (He was a single dad to 2 kids for 9 years after his first wife passed away) and he spends as much time with our son as he can. Some people just get caught up in the stress of raising a family that they forget the reasons that they fell in love in the first place and instead of trying to recapture that they turn on each other and nitpick at every little thing that their partner does wrong.
2006-10-04 00:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a very lucky person.
But if you want to know about True Love i'll tell you.
It is not what he thinks or he gives you, but instead everything you do for him with all your heart without asking anything in return is called true love. That's why it is so hard to find the True Love. you need to sacrifice in order to see the one you love so happy. So if he also feels the same way you do, you both found the True Love.
And about your question. why does everyone tell the bad stories and not the good?
It is because all the bad ones are just burden inside our heart. it will only make us depress, so if you let it out you will feel like your free. and why not the good ones, because that is the only thing you can keep as a very precious memory.
I hope i helped you..
2006-10-04 01:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by marav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my husband for 12 years. We've been married for 10 of those. We are expecting our third baby in March. We've faced some issues but we've gotten through them and we've confirmed what we suspected all along...we are a strong couple. He is my best friend. We hate to be away from each other. When he leaves for work I feel like I'm going to cry. I love when he has days off. We joke all the time that our relationship must be unhealthy because we HATE being apart. He is on night shift right now and he'll often come home for his lunch break so we can watch tv together and he can tuck me in to bed before he heads back to work. If he can't make it home then I call him and we talk for about an hour. Just today I made a batch of thumbprint jam cookies because he mentioned in passing that they sounded good. He woke up to fresh cookies! He always says that we both work 24/7. He goes to work and I work at the home so that when he gets home we have to merge and share the work. I love that about him. He is a terrific dad. He is in the kitchen right now making dinner with our youngest (our kids each have a night they have to cook each week).
I often feel I'm so lucky to have what I have. When I hear other women complaining about their husbands I wonder how I got so lucky. I never complain about my husband. The ONLY gripe I've ever had about him was that he would never lift the lid of the hamper to put his clothes in. Instead he'd just throw his clothes on top of the hamper. Pretty small potatoes! And I solved that by buying a laundry sorter that does not have a lid. :)
But I have known other women like myself and have had a few friends with great relationships. I have one friend who has been with her husband for ages and they can't keep their hands off each other--even in public. So, there are great couples out there. We just seem to hear about the bad ones more often.
2006-10-04 05:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by Amelia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I have this too. I cook dinner, he does the dishes. He brings me coffee every morning during the week, I do it for him on weekends. If I'm doing laundry, he asks if he can help. I don't know about anyone else, but before I met him I prayed to God for the right person, I told God I didn't even care if he was bald as long as he would love me, be a good dad and love God. Guess what? Two days later this bald man came into my office! The rest is as they say history.......( :
2006-10-04 00:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by Cinner 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My relationship is similar to yours. 12 years and 5 kids strong!! I am more in love with him today than the day I married him for sure!
We have an incredible relationship and we are eachothers best friends. He is everything I could hope for in a partner! We have more passion in our relationship today than the day we got married as well. Which I honestly don't know how with 5 kids running around, lol obviously thats how they got made!!
Sure he makes me mad and we disagree and sometimes I wanna choke the life right out of him, but I love him more than anything and all he has to do is smile and its all forgotten!
2006-10-04 02:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to point out the negative instead of the positive, and that's probably why there are so many problems in the relationships to begin with, everyone is pointing out the negative instead of working on the positive. I'm glad you have found true love. I love my husband to death, but I'm still working on the "not concentrating on the negative" thing, it's really hard, I've always been a pessimist.
2006-10-04 00:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Serious Answers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know what you mean! I've been with my hubby since high school (now married over 4 years) and I love him NOW more than ever. We're a typical couple - we have our arguements, disagreements, times we cant' stand each other, etc., but we have stuck with each other through it all and always will. I think too many people marry people they hardly know, marry people for the wrong reasons, and just plain don't know each other when they get married. I'm so thankful I married someone I've known since I was a young kid (we met when I was in 5th grade and he was in 4th) and took many years of just being friends before we even started dating. Love is an ever changing, growing thing, that needs a lot of caring and attention. I think many people in today's world forget that and just have these whirl wind romances with people who they're JUST sexually attracted to and forget everything else. We're also both glad we were virgins when we got married too. We're looking forward to many years to come and are TTC our first baby! Good luck to you honey! :)
2006-10-04 11:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Cookie On My Mind 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My hubby and I have been happily married for over 10 years and have 2 great kids.
There are lots of people out there happily married....the media just doesn't think "good & happy" is interesting.
2006-10-04 00:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋