i have been in a relationship for almost 9months with this guy that i do adore and love dearly but the problem is he some kinda dont trust me...(in terms of money)
even though he's not gonna say it,i think he looks as me as someone who might be just after his money even if he did not even give me any penny at all..it hurts
i love him but he hurts me and make me cry most of the time..
2006-10-03 17:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by carmel1981 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make someone trust you
2006-10-03 17:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by britney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is something your earn over time. And that long earned trust can be broken in a matter of minutes and may never be repaired fully. Because that person will always have some kind of doubt. So, think back and try to figure out if you have ever given him any reason for him to think that. And one of the key elements to a long lasting relationship is trust, honesty, and communication. So if you think he will never say that you just out for money....ASK HIM IF HE THINKS THIS OF YOU!!!!! Let him know that you care and love him for him. Not the greenbacks(money). And let him know that it hurts your feelings that you think he thinks this about you.
If he thinks that you are just out for money then problems will always prevail in this relationship.
2006-10-03 17:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by deltazeta_mary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.
trust is earned.
It takes a LONG TIME.
By caring, being selfless, and kind. Always doing what is right, being honest, and TRUSTWORTHY.
DO you have a career that will support you apart from his money?
If not then go get one - only by proving you don't NEED his money will you be able to make him believe you.
WHY WHY would you WANT to be with a man who makes you unhappy ?Who makes you cry ?
This isn't about TRUST. Its about respect.
Does he respect you ? if not cut your losses and move on.
2006-10-03 17:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kay M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone that hurts and makes you cry, the more you stay with him he will continue to hurt you..and as for $ forget about what he thinks, get out..imagine you married to him all the rest of your life you will be sad,
2006-10-03 17:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but trust can be earned and not made so just try to trust him
2006-10-03 17:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you shouldn't trust him IMO
2006-10-03 17:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by JimZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust can only be earned and it takes alot of time and moreso with people who have been burned.
2006-10-03 17:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth all the time, even when it is hard. Especially about money.
2006-10-03 17:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by Rose C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots and lots of oral s3x..
That's how I got my Larry to come back.
2006-10-07 04:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by thatoneguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋