I CAN NOT MAKE A MOVE ON A WOMAN!! i have had relations with women but they always made the moves first. when i am in the company of a beautiful woman i freeze up and i can not make a move at all!! what do i do? please help!!!
2006-10-03 16:52:01 · 7 answers · asked by Matt G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just put your nerves aside and do it. Just keep saying i am going to do it i am going to do it. And than just go for it. Tell youself that this is your life and your not going to let your nerves get the best of you, and you are in control. You only live once make the best out of it. Push your self and keep doing so, you will come around and find it easier and easier as you do so. It will become easier for ou as well when you met someone you really care about and feel comfortable. And if she cares for you too, she will be a bit nervous too, but you two will get over it. Just push yourself to do it.
2006-10-03 16:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the important thing for you is to get over your initial block. Once you start talking to women more, you'll find out it's not THAT hard. The problem, as with many such issues, is taking that first step. As for how to go about it, I'd suggest thinking to yourself next time 'What's the worst that could happen?' (because usually it isn't that bad).
2006-10-03 23:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a chance will come to you to make your move...maybe the women around you now are not yet the ones who will pull you out of your shell...trust me, a woman will come along and she'll be so distant that you will do everything in your power to get to know her..
if this chance doesn't come before you hit 50....then you're doomed...sorry, but that just about it..
for the meantime, how about trying it out? practice makes perfect..
2006-10-04 00:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be friends first and get to know the girl, and when you like her and she likes you then you can ask her out..take your time...
2006-10-03 23:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's just a confidence thing... once you get up the courage and do it for the first time you'll have no problems
2006-10-03 23:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
suck dik for a living
2006-10-03 23:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by photonymphasis 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
suck it up, and accept failure.
2006-10-03 23:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋