I hate that no matter how good I try to look or how nice I am, I always get put on the buddy or just friends list. Why cant the ladies just love me back?
2006-10-03 16:42:53 · 10 answers · asked by Jordon D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know how you feel, but its not you or them, its called chemistry, different things happen, but what will help is to try to be sweet, and if you are then try to be sweeter, ask them out, not to be your gf, but on a date, buy them some things, on valentines day ask a girl to be your valentine, and then treat her so special, then the girl you like will see what kinda man or gentlemen you really are, it works trust me. and be nicer but not to nice, girls don't like too nice guys, you have to be a little tough. so do the best you can thats all they expect from you, their not expecting a million dollars, or a hot guy to come a long but they wouldn't mind. but still all they ever want is to be with someone who cares, loves, thinks about, dreams of, and funny to them
2006-10-03 17:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by josephvigil56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking at friendship as your path to partnership, buddy. That's step one. When you start in the friend zone, you never get out.
2006-10-03 16:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just havent found that right girl yet. look at it as saving your heart from alot of breakers, its just one day closer to the day you met her. You need to find other girls, look in differnt places, she will come. Give them time to get to know you and fall in love with you.
2006-10-03 16:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get into life and develop interests and join clubs, you'll meet others who will have a lot in common with you. Interests develop people who will be interested in you.
2006-10-03 16:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt your fault. maybe some of them are already taken or maybe you're just no their type. (no offense or anything). don't worry, you'll find a girl that would put u on the "important" list. or maybe on of the girls do like you its just that they're shy.
2006-10-03 16:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by xxazaleanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no such things as friends between guys and girls. we are 2 different creaters they just dont want to date you.
2006-10-03 16:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by 571234 6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its either cuz ur not good looking enough or too nice :D
2006-10-03 16:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they love someone else...and if you feel imbarressed after you say i love you and they don't say it back just say just kiddin and they wont ever know that you really ment it...
2006-10-03 16:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by J J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you find that person! we girls love guys like you!
2006-10-03 16:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by crystal e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.
2006-10-03 16:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋