i love him, and i know he loves me, but i dont know if i can date some else, it wil be at least two months before we can get back together, what should i do?
2006-10-03 16:42:17 · 13 answers · asked by amomg2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why the two month lag?
If you love him, even though you guys are "broken up" right now, I say the best thing is to stay faithful and wait it out.
2006-10-03 16:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you didn't really want to break up, that maybe you had to for some reason?
You say you don't know if you could date someone else, and also consider how he would feel. Would he be ok with the fact that you were with someone else while you were apart? Or would it be something that could cause trouble in your relationship when you do get back together.
On the other hand, if you aren't sure that you have a long term future with him, maybe it would be better to date a little to explore your options.
It depends on how serious you are about the relationship, and how your relationship would be affected if you were to get back together.
If you are able to talk to him, you should talk to him about how you are feeling. If you both do love each other, you should be able to talk about the situation and come to a conclusion about what both of you should do as far as dating others.
2006-10-03 16:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would ask myself "Why" you are breaking up. And then I guess I would weigh the pros and cons. And if the Cons out weigh the pros then yeah I would date someone else. Plus there is no guarantee that you will get back together, sometimes things happen that you never expect.
But if it was me, I would probably hold off on going out and dating right away, you should be able to tell in a couple of weeks if things are going to work out and ya'll get back together!
Good Luck , I hope that made some sense.
2006-10-03 16:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by livinnfstfrwd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your certain that you's are getting back together then no, you shouldnt date someone else, thats just a rebound thing, and you will hurt the other person, but if your not sure that you's will get back together then go ahead,
but you also have to think about this,
why did you's break up the first time, is it really worth getting back with him if its gonna happen again
good luck hunny
2006-10-03 17:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by Boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINATELY date other people. If you get back together....then you won't wonder how it would have been to date other people. Give yourself permission to go have fun. Wouldn't it be sad to be tied down to the wrong person if the right person came along? And when they do come along....you'll know it because nothing can keep you apart. Don't be too available to this person & he'll come around if it's meant to be. People ALWAYS want what they think they can't have.....ALWAYS!!!
2006-10-03 16:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by your best friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mustn't attempt to be an unbecoming man or woman or something, quite. merely split, and seem him interior the interest and say that's authentic this time. If he retains messaging you and exhibiting up at your domicile, you'll get a restraining order. best of success sweetie Prayers and Hugs, Stephanie <3
2016-10-16 03:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by leinen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself if he will be dating anyone else in the two months, then just role on instinct, if an interesting person comes along don't let anything get in the road of fate, but saying that it's not like you have to go sleeping around.
2006-10-03 16:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date someone else then get back together when you can.
2006-10-03 16:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love this guy and he loves you, you should wait. that is as long as he is sincere and honest with you as well. if people can go years without dating, you can wait tow months. love will always find its way to work things out.
2006-10-03 16:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by firegal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you breaking in the first place if you're just planning on getting back together anyway???
2006-10-03 16:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by Ditsey24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋