okay its this guy i really like, i met him when he went to my high school because he was one of my brother's friends,so one day on myspace we get to talking and we start flirting, well he started it and we kept going. after that I started to catch feelings but he has a girlfriend. so i thought to myself why would he flirt with me yet he seems like he loves his gurl because they leave comments on each other pages still. he been with her since their 10 grade year my friend who knows him told me this ,before I even got to ( in 06 his last year)high school, he graduated in 06. I hate going to his page because i see her in his top 8 as number 1 and seeing her love comments because it hurts seeing that. what should I do.
2006-10-03 16:36:28 · 20 answers · asked by honeydip369 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on he's obviously a jerk
2006-10-03 16:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ditsey24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE IT ALONE! Think about it, would you really want to be with someone that is practicallly cheating on his girlfriend with you? Even if you and him did get together do you think you could ever trust him? Why would you want to be with someone that you know has no respect for a relationship? If you did get with him it wouldn't be long before he was out flirting with someone else that caught his eye at the moment and then you would be in the same shoes as the girl hes with now. Is that what you want?
2006-10-03 16:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get this feeling to. he isn't actually flirting with u. Its more of a friend thing. If he would have not had a girl friend he would of asked u out. But u need to respect him for having a girlfriend. Or know what ask him if he's flirting with u.
2006-10-03 16:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural. It's not bad. He's not married. I have a friend that does the same thing. He loves his girlfriend with all his heart and she thinks it's funny for him to flirt. Some girls are REALLY uptight about it. Give him some slack. Let him know he's playing with your emotions. Good luck.
2006-10-03 16:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on just because he flirts doesnt mean hes into you that way. guy like to flirt with other girls as well as girls like to flirt with other guys. Its wrong for him to flirt with another girl if hes with someone, but lots of men do it anyways, so why would you want that guy in the first place. Say you two ever did hock up do you really want a bf that goes off flirting with other girls all the time? You like him because hes saying things you want to hear, so either stop talking or ask him why hes flirting straight up. He just likes getting other girls attention doesnt mean he wants to act on his actions.
2006-10-03 16:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys want to feel like the "Man" sometimes. Your girlfriend tells you you're great....but all guys still want to test themselves to see if they still got it. It's nice to feel like you haven't lost your touch. I'm not sure what was said in your flirting, but if he hasn't continued it.....you just gave him an ego boost.
BTW....How you doo'in?
2006-10-03 16:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is planning to break up with his gf.maybe u want to see will u fall for him.or maybe just joking with you.there are so many comclusion.but if u want to flip the tables on him u can save the converstation u and him had.then invite hid gf over and let her take a peek at it!!!!!
2006-10-03 16:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by trina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run from him... he will do the same thing to you if you get involved. If he is not happy with this other girl, then he needs to be a 'man' and leave her.
2006-10-03 16:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend, leave him alone. I don't see the reason why you should talk to him again unless he doesn't have one. Leave him alone.
2006-10-03 16:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very thankful that he isn't your boyfriend. She obviously doesn't have a clue. Aren't you glad that you have been warned as to the type of guy he is?
2006-10-03 16:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if he has a girlfriend and he is flirting with you than he is nothing but trash and scum and you shouldnt even be concerned with him because he has no respect for himself or anyone else. because if he would do it to her he would do it to u.
2006-10-03 16:39:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋