he says he cant concentrate in school anymore, and he doesnt have enough freedom, that we date again when he gets more freedom from his parents? isnt that retarded?
2006-10-03 16:35:28 · 22 answers · asked by amomg2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
>It's a line, but you both sound too young for "serious" anyway.<
2006-10-03 16:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Druid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where your coming from but then again I hear where he's coming from also. The reasoning you're right is retarded but maybe he broke up with you because he does want his freedom but when he does get that freedom he'll be there with you and then he will be able to focus more on the relationship and not have to worry about school and his parents. It sounds like he wants to spend time with you he wants longer periods of time but then again this may be a plot just to break up with you. Give it time and see how things are going in a couple of weeks or so, if it's not working then it wasn't meant to be but if things are going well then go from there, all I can say is good luck.
2006-10-03 16:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't want to mess up his schooling and don't want him to feel like he's trapped. Give him his space and let him realize what he needs to do with himself. If his parents are pressuring him, there's nothing you can really do until they let up. Being "too in love with you" is crap. There's no such thing as being "too in love" with someone. Just back off a bit and see what happens. He'll eventually miss you and come around and all those excuses will go away. Just don't let him USE you or get the best of you! Be smart!
2006-10-03 16:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by bri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with him saying that he says that he loves you too much. This is a lie if he said that. He probablly just wants the freedom in his life again.
2006-10-03 16:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think he gets a small point for at least trying to be honest, however I think it is a laim excuse. Since I believe if he really loved you he would do anything yo make it work.
2006-10-03 16:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lissette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if it's retarded if that's how he feels you don't have a choice.
Sounds like he wants to experience the single life.
2006-10-03 16:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's about one of the worst excuses I've ever heard. That sounds like somthing that would be suggested on this site.
2006-10-03 16:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that's hard for you, but it's good to back off if your too young and getting too serious! Maybe he'll come around when your older!!
2006-10-03 16:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loved you that bad then even after he broke up with you he would still not be able to consintrate in school...he must not be tellin you the truth i say just find someone else...
2006-10-03 16:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by J J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just didn't know how to let you down nicely so he lied... It least thats the way it seems... Find a new guy because this one really sucks.
2006-10-03 16:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're retarded. If he's in love with you why do you need to go out with him?
2006-10-03 16:39:02 · answer #11 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋