They both came at the same time an.Its just hard to know that in hueting both of them.I love them with every thing i have.an its hurting me know that im doing both of them wrong.Why???They are good people.their smart,funny,loving,kind,faithful.Their just good people all the way around.I miss night after night of sleep over not knowin what to do.Please help if you can.
2006-10-03 16:27:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make a decision before they find out about the other or you risk the chance of losing both of them cause they both won't trust you any more if they find out so my advice ask your self this questions which one dose your heart race with which one do you think about the most and take a chance with that one and just let the other guy down easy but no breaking up is really easy but tell him you love him but can't be with him right now and you need space then if you made the right choice then later you can tell this guy you love him like a friend and still want to be his friend I love 3 men but I love them differently I love my husband and he is the perfect husband and my best friend but I have to other male friends that are both single and very very nice men and if I was not madly in love with my hubby and happily married too him I would have a very hard time deciding which one I would want to date well actually I just realized which one I would date see I think you really would no too if you just thought about it long enough you could make a decision just which one do you dream about which one is better in bed which one has the best job ok which one has the better looking dad cause he will probably look more like his dad or his grandpa so take a look at his family tree and see if he we still be good looking in his golden years u know like his he going to look like Sean Connery when he is being called grandpa by someone ... or grampas from hee haw sorry not who I want to look at every morning yuck ok sorry for the book here!!!
2006-10-07 04:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are ladies available in the market who wish a intelligent, humorous, loving, candy, devoted & respectful man--and you're selfishly hogging 2 of them. You must make a option. Rather you supposed to or now not, you ARE being a participant proper now. Most "avid gamers" or cheaters get stuck finally. And you do not wish an unpleasant scene. So you must permit certainly one of them move--in the event that they uncover out what you've got been doing, I'm definite you'll be able to haven't any option however to mention good-bye to either one of them. You are not able to sleep at night time considering of all of the guilt you believe, whenever you do the proper factor--although it approach inflicting a few heartache--you are going to believe such a lot greater and relieved. It is difficult to reside 2 lives: It takes such a lot out of you simply to preserve up with your whole excuses, lies, and alibi after alibi.
2016-08-29 08:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, be very honest with them. You will hurt them both much more if they think you are dating them exclusively than if they know you're still exploring your options.
If they both already think they're the only man in your life, you need to make a decision. Which one do you see in your future? Which one has more qualities that you would want to commit to?
2006-10-03 16:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by MtnBlossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm...here's a novel approach: Let them work it out.
What I mean is (and this works whether they already know about each other or not), tell both of them your dilemna. Then sit back and see which one is willing to fight for you more. One may say "stay with me; I love you with all my heart". The other might say, "I don't want to see you hurting; I'll step back and you can have your happiness with the other guy".
If that happens, then you have your answer: the one who is willing to fight for you, ask for you, plead for you. Hopefully for your sake, that's not both of them, and your decision will be made for you. And really, then the one you wind up with, you will grow to love more, because he did fight for you.
2006-10-03 16:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are in love with either one of them. Your in love with the idea that these guys want you and they treat you well. If you really loved them, then there would never be another guy and you would never want to do what your doing. You have a lot to learn if you think this is what being in love is all about. You can't say you don't like to cheat...or you would never have started it.
2006-10-03 16:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by cocoa198517 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart on which to choose. If you can't make the decision. Then forget about BOTH of them. Get on your life
2006-10-03 16:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by LoveFreak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either let one of them go or put them both to a test to see which is the better for you.
2006-10-03 16:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Brad A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the best one you like the best. Write a list of qualities you like about each, and see which one you like better.
2006-10-03 16:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO, people are wishing they had your problem right now....
2006-10-03 16:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by bad kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋