I really like this guy and he likes me too. He's always saying how sexy I am and how beautiful I am. We hooked up, but I don't really think it meant anything to him. But for me, I had chills the whole weekend cause I still envisioned him there. My friend told me that he likes other girls too. How do I win over his heart and outshine the other girls?
2006-10-03 16:21:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn as much as you can about what he likes and dislikes. He will appreciate the interest. Get involved with what he likes.
Don't sell your soul to do this though, you still should be yourself even if you don't ultimately end up being with him.
2006-10-03 16:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't. If he was worth anything, he would have respected you enough not to just randomly hook up. If you have to compete with other girls, that just means he's probably a player and so he KNOWS that he can always just get another girl. He won't treat you very well because you're just the girl who's "lucky" to win him over. Don't do it. Notice that he always calls you sexy and beautiful. That's a dead giveaway that he's mainly interested in you for your body. If he cared about you as a person, his compliments would be "funny" or "interesting" in addition to "beautiful".
Find someone who'se interested in waiting to hookup, because that means he respects you. You deserve better.
2006-10-03 23:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't bother with this guy. If he hooks up with you and you're in doubt over whether it means anything to him, he doesn't deserve you. You should look for a guy who's all about you. You shouldn't have to outshine other girls to win over a guy like that.
2006-10-03 23:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no you didn't fall for it? You don't want to outshine for this big flirt. Just be smart enough to NEVER fall for this kinda guy again. Respect yourself more. IGNORE him. Guys ALWAYS want what they think they can't have. Have some fun giving him a taste of his own medicine. Turn the tables on him.
2006-10-03 23:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by your best friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Look at how animals treat each other. The females are the boss. That is why I love the preying mantis and black widow spiders. Men do not like girls who are simping over them. Be strong and realize he is not the the only guy in the world. Thing strong; be strong.
2006-10-03 23:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by glenda576 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's pretty sad that you think competing for this guy's attention is really worth your effort.
Why not stop sleeping with guys like him and find someone who truly cares about you-- one that you don't have to "win" in that way? If you meant anything to him, you wouldn't need to "win" him. Besides, he's no prize.
2006-10-03 23:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him...he is a Player. He got what he wanted if you had sex, that is all there is to it. Females have this tendency to get all wrapped up in Relationships more than guys for they are 'groomed' from the first day of Life to get married and have a family...
2006-10-03 23:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love yourself and don't make him a priority. Continue being nice, but not always available. Act like you don't need him to have fun, to be productive, to be happy. But also, like you enjoy it when you're with him.
2006-10-03 23:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by mariposita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Competition like that is not good. You better grow up to find out any relationship is choice of two people any way HOW OLD YOU ARE?????????
2006-10-03 23:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he has too many girls on his mind. I would forget about him and find a guy who is into you and only you
2006-10-03 23:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by frvriprms 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋