Ok me and my brother got in a fight yesterday so my dad sed we couldn't watch T.V. so me trying to make things better was like "ok i can do that i think i deserve it and i mean it's just a week!" so yeah my bro just start watching T.V. so i told him dad wuz gonna get mad. I told my dad and hez all "O well just next time i'll do something worse" im like WUT!!!!!! if it would've been me he would've been like "o im so dissapointed" and then i told my dad that my bro wouldn't turn his friggin loud stereo unless i turned it down. I had told my big bro that lives in another state, told me just calm down and don't do what he tells you just talk to dad and he'll take care of it if you fight w/ ur bro then you'll get all the blame but if you w8 and talk ur dad will understand. YEAH RIGHT!!!! i did exactly as he told me and my dad sed "GAWD, why can't you just leave ur brother alone, ur always provoking him to fight" I was just.......wow! I had been so happy that day and he just.......ruined it.
2006-10-03 16:16:30 · 5 answers · asked by =)) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just so u know hez 3 years older and im the youngest one. I have 2 more older bros beside that.
2006-10-03 16:19:46 · update #1
Sounds like to me that you need to learn some respect for your father and maybe then he will believe you.
2006-10-03 16:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell you (as the middle child of 5) that complaining about your brother to your Dad, will only annoy your Dad... especially if you do it a lot. In Sibling fights, the Squeeky wheel gets the blame... and your brother will continue to get away with what he does, because he just DOES it... YOU, being the one who actually DOES do what you are told to do, (GOOD THING TO KEEP DOING, BTW)... are going to always be the one told to stop... because you WILL...
It's easier for your Dad to stop YOU, than it would be for him to confront your brother and be forced to actually TRY and get your brother to behave.... it will not change. It IS not fair, and you will have "issues" by the time you're 30....
Just make sure you finish your education, train for something lucrative, and move across country ... (getting Married to get away is NOT a good option.... um.. yeah... that's a ReAl bad idea... so don't do that.... )
2006-10-03 16:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry your dad treats you both so differently. Have you ever tried talking to him about it? or your mom? Maybe he doesn't even realize he does it. If you bring it to his attention it may help make him aware therefore making it stop.
2006-10-03 16:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by sceptileptic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh... Yeah... What? Maybe it's just me, but this doesn't seem like a question, and if it is, it's completely incoherent.
2006-10-03 16:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you on drugs? Put down the bong and try again when you come down.
2006-10-03 17:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Chocoholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋