I had a dream that my boyfriend and I lived in mid-evil times. He ahd done somthing bad that requried him to be beheaded. I didnt want this to happen but could do nothing to stop it. Am I crazy or what? Please help me!
2006-10-03 16:07:41 · 16 answers · asked by mschrissy 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Hi! You are definitely NOT crazy ; ) Vivid dreams we remember are for a reason. Most dreams are never literal, meaning they aren't to be taken as they are....your brain uses symbols to usually tell you something from your subconscious mind to your conscious mind...so that you get a message about yourself. The symbols from what you tell me about your dream can tell you alot, but I would need more details to really give you an interpretation.
For example, beheaded (or decapitation) means "afraid of losing your head" : acting dishonourably...so perhaps you are worried that you or your boyfriend may be weak and not make the right decision.
Or, the fact that you got something started and then didn't mean to and tried to stop it and couldn't - could mean in your waking life you feel like things are out of your control, or you have a fear of not being able to control a certain situation. Sounds like to me you want to be in control in your life, but you feel out of control about something. It could be your relationship with your boyfriend - feeling like you want to have more control and choices, but afraid to make the wrong decisions and pay for the consequences. Remember too, the dream usually is about you and not necessarily the person, so maybe it is more about your life and being unsure of yourself.
Remember to think about other symbols in the dream, the colours, the objects - then find a good dream symbol book and try to see what those symbols mean - it can be the missing puzzle pieces that help you understand yourself better.
I wish you well!! Try a website - it's called Dream School...do a search for it under Google or whatever, and it is a site that will interpret your dream for free.
2006-10-03 16:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are funny, they can have multiple meanings. You need to look at what is going on in your life and see if there is something in your life that might need changing. Your best bet would be to consult books about dream interpratation. No you are not crazy, everyone has dreams and dreams are normal. the best thing to do is when you have a dream like this again is write it down. Heep a notebook or your journal on a table next to your bed. then in the morning or if they wake you up in the middle of the night write it down.
Consult books, and really read into what the dream maybe trying to tell you.
Good Luck
2006-10-03 23:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by SkyFyre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all dreams mean something. It's possible that it's just a crazy dream. Can you think of something in your life that correlates with this dream? Someone (not necessarily your bf) done something bad that you know about? Or someone being blamed for something that they did not do (and you know they didn't do it)?
That's all I get out of this. Dreams are crazy, not you!
2006-10-03 23:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sub-concious was telling you that you can't control who he is or where he is going. Are you struggling with that lately? I mean, is he about to start a new job, has he joined a new group of friends?
Sounds like something new has come into, or started to play on your relationship, and you are beginning to realize you have less control over it, or him, than you had become accustomed to.
Your dream demonstrates several key themes:
New or uncomfortable surroundings (medeival times)
A twist of fate you could not see coming or control (his actions)
An outcome you could not influence (his punishment)
These themes are probably playing out for you in real life, and this is how your id is dealing with them.
2006-10-03 23:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by jumping_in_101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people say that dreams are a glimpse into the future. If you look at it this way, maybe he will be arrested for something.
On the other hand, it may mean nothing.
2006-10-03 23:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by n_burson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't crazy. Don't worry to much about your dreams. Your frontal cortex shuts down while you sleep, causing your thoughts to become uninhibited. Your memories drop into your consciousness and get scrambled while your brain is trying to organize them. In short, dreams are always weird.
2006-10-03 23:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe there's something going on in your life that you do not have control of, or you at least feel like you don't have control of it.
Evaluate your life and see what it could be. Then decide what you need to do to get back in control.
2006-10-03 23:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that does mean u're crazy. some people like me have weird dreams and they sometimes scare people and make them think weird things. i'm 16 an live in linn Missouri
lacresha
2006-10-03 23:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can interprete the dream. Don't use any of those dream interpretation books; they are too generalized.
2006-10-03 23:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by analystdevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, maybe you should know more about your boyfriend, before you get more Sirius about him, take good care of yourself when doing some kind of trips. may God bless you always
2006-10-03 23:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Isabel Gaviota 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋