On Sunday at church they are all polite and conservative. Then Friday night at the bar they are all like "let's party" and "let's get it on" with more arms than an octopus.
2006-10-03 15:35:13 · 13 answers · asked by Ask Donna 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Going to church does not make you a Christian. And many Christians wrongly asume that because they have been forvgiven of their sins that they can do whatever they want.
But the Bible says in Romans 6:15 says "What Then? Shall we sin because we are not under the law but under the grace of our Lord Jesus? By no means!" If your Guy friends are Christian than you should confront them about this problem. If they are not than do not expect them to act like other Christians.
2006-10-03 15:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Monika B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are in a bar on Friday night trying to "get it on" then it is very likely they are religious people but not Christians. The word Christian means "little Christ" and that behavior does not exemplify Christ in any way, shape or form. That being said, sometimes Christian men fall into sin. Sorry you have had such bad experiences. Don't judge Christianity by its adherents. Judge Christianity by Christ. He is the only One who will never take advantage of you, who loves you with an infinite, unchanging love. Put your trust in Him, not in man.
2006-10-03 22:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by 4gvn_snr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't hang at the bar if you are looking for respectable men. If the guys from church aren't living Christians lives, look for the ones that are. They will be the ones that are NOT at the bar:)
2006-10-03 22:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one reason is that they are taught the fear of God by the precept of man. The sunday church is false. The Lord commands us to remember his sabath and to keep it holy and to have holy convocations (gatherings). Plain words. but no one is paying attn to this. We have to keep every commandment except the sabath day., Yeah right. Look to this for answers. wwwtheisraelofgod.com
The christians I know don't go out friday nights because it is the sabath of the Lord
2006-10-03 22:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are male for one and probably hypocrite's for the second and boy i could go on and on and on. Why don't you look for a guy who is more true and natural to himself and the universe?
2006-10-03 22:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds typical. You should really stand up in church and say it to them.
2006-10-03 22:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 side personality.
2006-10-03 22:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn You must be sexy as hell..ummm? Or they just don't respect you. The real answer is they are not christians.
2006-10-03 22:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must be so lucky. Take advantage and have fun.
2006-10-03 22:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are probably either backslidden or hypocrites.
2006-10-03 22:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋