Ok one of my cousins Friends is so...... Fine and he likes me, but he mad a comment to me on the phone saying that he doesnt know if he really want to get into a realationship right now. He hasnt mentiond this again and it was a couple weeks ago when he did. So... Should i keep talking to him or what? He also goes to a different High school then me.... But im not worried about that. He really wants to meet up some were like a game or the movies should i go , should i try to get with him still????
2006-10-03 15:25:42 · 8 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he wants to ask you out, he will. Don't try and get with him or keep talking with him. Guys, and eventually men, do a lot of talking just to make sure they're able to get your attention. For a lot of guys, it's all about the chase.
Let him ask you out; let him come up with a plan to go out. In the mean time, go on about your business- don't just hang around waiting for him to make a decision.
2006-10-03 15:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he said he's not really ready to get into a relationship. Think of it this way you meet a guy and he comes up to you and ask you out. You say im really not into any relationship thing right now but thanks.
Thats a nicer way of letting the person know hey im not into you that way.
So should you call him NO. dont' stalk someone or try to push yourself on to someone who is not interested. This won't look right with him and you look like your hard up.. Plenty of other fish in the sea. and sometimes who we like doesn't always work. but there will be times when someone likes you and there not right for you either.
Good luck and chin up .. plenty of other fish in the sea
2006-10-03 22:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he mentioned the first that he wasn't looking for a relationship then he doesn't want one. but u know what u can be best friends with him and from that it could blossom into a b.F.and G.f. relationship. So hold on a bit more. When u talk to him don't mention nothin about having a relationship. When he's ready u will be there. Don't push him to much cuz then he'll think ur desperate. Then he won't want anything. Give him time!
2006-10-03 22:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should. Take from someone whos experinced this before. When i was 18 I was talking to a 24 year old. We got really close and started dating. Now hes in Iraq. I really dont know what to do. But I'm waitin for him. Stay talking to him, and meet up with him. Let him know how much you care, and how much you wanna be with him.
2006-10-03 22:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by *t. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The KEY to this question is to listen to what he says. Learn to say so what. You will find lots of guys in the future. When you are so young, it seems like the world will come to an end if someone you like does not like you. You must learn to be strong emotionally or you wil get hurt over and over again.
2006-10-03 22:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by glenda576 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u should if you like him i mean a 2 yr age difference aint tat bad either, then if he wants to meet semewhere then go.
2006-10-03 22:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by ▌«♥dσσdette♥«▐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yess!! stuff he said 2 weeks ago can change and if you like him go for it. plus talking to him or not wouldn't make a difference in "going for it" its more like hanging out and that stuff thats "going for it"
but.. good luck.
2006-10-03 22:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you an do u know this guy complete...............................................thats wat my mom would say just go 4 him
2006-10-03 22:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by tam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋