My ex boyfriend and I brokeup 4 months ago b/c I cheated on him. And I really hurt him. But he gave me a look that romantic movie look where he is with a girl that he likes but he likes me more. And he was with his ex gf. And then I was dancing with my friend Chris and my ex gave him and I a sad look. Do u think he will forgive me and talk to me again? I appologized 40 times. And he said I need more appologize than that. Then he tells his ex that he felt used. Does he still care about me? And I've known him since kindergarten we've been best friends ever since and I was his child hood crush.
2006-10-03 15:17:49 · 34 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably not! good luck
2006-10-03 15:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like to me your ex needs to stop wasting his time with used up scanks. If you cheated on him then why are you complaining. How would you feel if he had cheated on you? Do you reallly have the right to ask his forgiveness? I personally do not think you do, that is his decision to make and if he choose not to then I reallly couldn't blame him. What you need to learn from this particular situation is to keep your legs closed and stop screwing around with every guy that walks by. If he thinks he's been used maybe it will make him feel better when all the guys around town get wind that your easy and come knocking on your door for a ********. How's that for used?
2006-10-03 15:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he forgive you? So what you apologized 40 times!! I hope the guy you cheated on was worth losing a bf and a best friend and hope you learn from this and not do it again.
If you have never been cheated on, you would never know the betrayal that he is feeling right now. It truly is awful. Leave the poor guy alone.
2006-10-03 15:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by jovy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way I would ever think about forgiving a girl for cheating on me is if I was totally in love with her, and if maybe I contributed to her doing it in some way. An example would be like if maybe I had been spending all my time with my mates for a couple weeks straight or something and ignoring her pleas to spend time with her. Otherwise, there's no way I would forgive her.
2006-10-03 15:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by tripleplatinum2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure he does still care about you. U dated awhile and shared alot of things together. He is going thru alot of hurt right now and he has a right to be hurting! One day he may decide to forgive u but forgetting is another thing! The only thing u can do is show him thru your actions that u really are sorry! Dont push him into a corner- he needs time to heal. He not only lost his girlfriend he lost his best friend ( you ) too so Im sure he is feeling totally lost right now. SHAME ON YOU GIRL!
2006-10-03 15:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie i hate to tell u this but ex-bf is just stringing u along and i gurantee he waiting for the perfect time to hurt u like you've hurt him..don't expect it to ever be the same way it use to be ....you are not children anymore...the more u apoligize he has controll but that's as far as it's gonna go and if it goes further he'll never let u forget what u did.....forgive and forget or 2 different things...... don't read 2 much into it
2006-10-03 15:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will probably forgive you in time but I wouldn't hold onto a thought of getting back together. He feels betrayed and trust needs to be earned back and unfortunately the words I'm sorry are meaningless. You need to show you are sorry and that you can be trusted again.
2006-10-03 15:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you were his childhood crush so he has love you for a long time but you didn't love him cause if so you never would had cheated on him for any reason one day he may forgive you but he will never trust you again and that friend ship is gone to he has a broken heart that you cause so leave him alone so he can heal good luck
2006-10-03 15:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you slept with the guy its over. He'll never forgive you. So move on. If not, give it a shot he should be able to forgive you. Sometimes being single is a liberating experience
2006-10-03 15:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gave him more time to be alone.. Maybe this time he cannot forgive you bcoz he still angry with you.But if he still love you he will forgive you and gave you a chance.. Just be more patient ok bcoz you are the reason why you and he broke up..
2006-10-03 15:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think so . Looks like he is playing you well .
You should only have to apologize once .get some new friends and see where this will take you . Don't forget : Other Moms have pretty son's too!
2006-10-03 15:25:50 · answer #11 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋