Me and my gf have been going out for nearly 6 months, and we both love each other, but lately she's been hanging around with her x-bf, and won't tell me about it, and basically lies to me about it...so, this is a 2 part question...What are they probably doing? and, what should i Do?
2006-10-03 15:11:37 · 18 answers · asked by 01 Titan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't jump to any rash conclusions, unless you saw it or someone else did and you have proof. If you are really worried about it, then you should call that show called "Cheaters" and see if they can help catch her in the act. The fact that she is hiding it from you is a sign that she COULD be doing something, then again it could be purely platonic. She may be hiding it from you because she feels that you may be jelous or angry that she is hanging out with her ex. My advice is to confront her and see what she says when you ask her point blank, otherwise again call "Cheaters". Good luck and sorry!
2006-10-03 15:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by fatiima 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume that she is cheating. If she is lying and not telling you what she is doing, then she's doing something that she obviously dosen't want you to find out about. It is nearly impossible to hang around with your ex and not rekindle old feelings. It sounds like you don't trust her. Go with your gut and tell her that this isn't the type of relationship you want to be in. You should move on and be in a relationship you deserve. Life is too short for the stress. Good luck :-)!
2006-10-03 22:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by TressesAbroad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 23 years old, married almost a year, pregnant with first kid to tell you a little about me. Personally if she loves you, she won't want to hang out with her ex. Plus she's not telling you about it, which means it's probably not innocent. You need to sit down and have a serious talk with this girl. If she doesn't agree to stop seeing him, stop seeing her. You deserve better.
2006-10-03 22:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by Motivated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she is hanging around him? Tell her your uncomfortable with it and see what she says. I would never hang around an ex while I was with someone new. It is very disrespectful. Also, if the two of them had a close relationship, she shouldn't put herself in the situation where she could cheat.
2006-10-03 22:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by tonyagc23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may all be very innocent, but something tells me she is hiding something if she can't be truthful, especially to you. I say just ask her straight up...do you want to be with me or him? Be prepared for her answer though...if she chooses him over you, you'll have to accept it. I personally wouldn't want to date someone that won't be honest with me. So as far as what they are probably doing? Who knows for sure. Only 2 ways to find out, ask her and hope for an honest answer or spy on them. Good luck.
2006-10-03 22:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by SoAZ Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not going to the kiddie park that's for sure. Just leave her. Why? Well she is not being honest. That is the most essential thing in a relationship and if you don't got that then... you don't have a true and honest relationship. Love is all about HONESTY. Why hide things from your one true love? Unless.... she's CHEATING ON YOU.
2006-10-03 22:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by jaaaam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(I'm a girl don't let the name fool you)If shes just now starting to hang out with an old boyfriend theirs some old feelings being brought up.Shes trying to see if shes completely over him and totally happy with you. Sorry theirs nothing you can do to change a women's mind. It comes down to her and who shed rather be with. Continue to be you I mean that's why she went out with you in the first place
2006-10-03 22:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Nelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm...first off..
why is she out with her x and second why is she telling you lies
what are they doing? I dont want to guess, but I dont think they should be hanging out...and what should you do? I think you need to put your foot down and ask her to make a decision. If she is so interested in being with him, then maybe they should get back together and you need to cut your loses. Sorry to be so blunt, but why get hurt u know.
2006-10-03 22:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't jump to any conclusions...try talking to her about it...and if she really won't tell you then she's probably up to no good...sorry to tell you but if it was just a friend thing then she wouldn't mind telling you
2006-10-03 22:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she been doing lately with her ex, if she doesn't want to say anything on it she's prbly up to no good. if she tells u & u thnk shes lieing abt it, go and talk to her ex.
2006-10-03 22:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by racergrl67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋