as far as i am concerned all men cheat..wheneva i get tha chance i am in my boyfriends cell phone..when he's sleeping.in the shower..even when he paying for gas...all his text messages r from other women..he knows i do it..of course he deny's cheating and when we r 2gether he makes me feel like i am the only 1 but i kno betta..there is a 13 yr age difference and we have been 2gether for 2 years..but every time i go through his phone afterward i feel like ripping his eyes out...he's smart though he ALWAYS deletes the outgoing messages so i cant see his responses....but the incoming messages r enuff for me 2 leave him..but im still here..ladies u know u cant help who ur heart loves..HELP!!!
2006-10-03 15:02:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go through his phone. If he is cheatting it will come out. Don't make yourself go crazy. Just hang tight. It will come out. If you are ensecure then you really don't love him. You don't trust him truely.Take a step back and hang tight. Then let the **** hit the fan when it happens. Don't put yourself under all the stress.
2006-10-03 15:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ready G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never be with a cheater,in my thoughts cheating is like being a alcoholic without help it wont stop.And without help you are faced with a person that will cheat on you and cheating also means they are deceitful.I never understood anyone that dates a person cheating on another person if they cheat on them guess what chances are they will cheat on you.Your heart and head needs to have a long talk...Good Luck
2006-10-03 15:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by luckiestarrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K...SOOOO YOu have insecurity issues....
If you can't trust the guy, the relationship is no good. And obviously you don't trust him.....You have to allow him to do his own thing...being an independent individual....if you can't trust him and can't allow him this, then it's not fair to him....its like keeping him on a leash....NO GOOD....At one point he'll come to a point where he won't want to be in a relationship with you like this....SO, my suggestion to you is to stop checking up on his business...and if he is cheating...dump his butt....cuz the hurt is going to be worse the longer you're in denial...
2006-10-03 15:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by asiantomato84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - Go with your gut. . .
Second - Why are you still with him if he's getting text messages from other women?
Third - Its not fair to either of you if you don't trust him.
You are wasting your time - there is someone better out there!! Go find him and make babies :-) (kidding, but seriously)
2006-10-03 15:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by Coleen429 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do women rifle through mens things and then become hurt? you go looking for trouble. Stop the drama already.
2006-10-03 15:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey it's OBVIOUS as the SUN....
he's cheating on you ....
LEAVE HIM....
you deserve someone better who would love you for who you are no matter how old are you....
i believe he's just taking advantage of you ....
2006-10-03 15:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by sweet cherry78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of his private stuff. A 13yr. difference oh my gosh!
2006-10-03 15:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Ian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brake the phone so u don't have any thing to look at
2006-10-03 15:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by crezey 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to hm about it i guess ive nev had this prob=)
2006-10-03 15:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-10-03 15:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋