i asked this girl if she has had sex before???????????

Question

she said she has never..but i believe she has because she makes statements that seem such..such as sayin we that "we have been having it before" and all of a sudden when she realizes she is not talking to her girlfriends, she says she was just playing cos we just started going out at that time..like two weeks..and she starts acting funny and being shaky..and when you ask her about her past relationships..she is always shaky about it..and u have 2 force it out of her mouth . she also talks about some sex methods i never heard before..lol..i want to know if she might be lying to me or telling me the truth and she is always as if sex dosent mean anything to her anymore as if she is tired of it...thats when u ask her to have sex she denies u totally..lol..altho i was just trying to test her

Answer 1

so what is your question?

Answer 2

Does it matter??? I mean really, I don't know how old you are cuz you left that part out and judging by your picture....exactly, there isn't one! But I would say who gives a rats-@ss! She has, she hasn't....maybe you need to get to know her and build a relationship, then when its time it'll happen! You may get to know her and decide you don't even like her, then you won't have a baby with someone you don't even like! In the mean time try masturbating...it'll save you 20% of your pay!

Answer 3

she might of had sex but not willingly , and she probley says she has to look cool in front of her friends if it is a big deal to u then u just need to tell her its the truth or i am gone. And about the sex method its called postion and she probley seen it on tv or heard it fromone of her friends, u have the wrong girl or your girl has the wrong crowd of friends,

Answer 4

Firstly does whether she has or not affect your opinion of her?
From there you need to consider your reasons for testing her,
her word should be enough and if it isn't I would say you have serious issues about trusting her....
Even if she wasnt completely truthfull, you testing her is all so devious. If whether she has or hasnt doesnt make any difference than I would stop worring about it.

Answer 5

Just because she knows about sex does not mean that she has sex. I know about the law but that doesn't make me a lawyer and I know a lot about STDs yet I have never had one.

What's wrong with being educated?

Answer 6

She probably is a virgin and doesn't want to seem uncool or look like a nerd because she hasn't had sex yet. She nerves around you awkward because she likes you.

Answer 7

Why do you care if your partner has ever had sex before. Why don't you just please her. That way she'll know you're better than the others. I don't know why anyone would want to know how many partners others have had. I don't think it's any of their business and it has the possibility to ruin a relationship. If your partner doesn't have any diseases and is good/experienced, I say just press on and have fun.

Answer 8

Well according to "American Pie II" I think it was........women divide it by 3 and guys multiply it by 3........

She also might be lying to her friends, which kids do all the time.

Answer 9

so what is the question here, are you asking if she has had sex before, the answer is simple yes she has, the other thing you need to learn now is that women ALWAYS LIE. good luck. just get over it and don't trip on it. who cares what she has done in the past.

Answer 10

You appear to be too young to be having sex anyway. Keep it in your pants a few more years.

Answer 11

WHAT KIND OF TEST IS THAT.MAYBE SHE FEELS THAT IS A PRIVATE MATTER AND SHE DOES NOT FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH TALKING ABOUT HER PAST. GIVE HER SOME SPACE OR YOU WILL PUSH HER AWAY.