What Does this mean? (girls only)?

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What does this mean? (for girls only)?
What does it mean when you break up with your dude, but then start to tease him about a "new girlfriend". I try to tell my ex that i don't have another girlfriend and that i am only interested in getting back with her, but she keeps playin like i'm lying about my feelings and about having a new girl friend. Could she be happy that i found a "new girlfriend" or could she be jealous or could she want me back but doesn't know how to tell me or could it be something else? By the way, i DO NOT have another girlfriend, i still love my ex with all my heart and i only want to work things out with her and no one else and that is the truth. But i need a womans point of view on this. oh, by the way, she is pregnant with our child and i want to really be there for our child. We already had a serious conversation about gettin back together but she still says no and continues to tease me about a new gf. I continue to tell her that she is the only i want.

the mistake that i regretfully made was trying to keep a FRIENDSHIP with my ex behind her back when i should have let the past be the past. I told her that i was deeply sorry and i even cried (really boo hood) when she broke up with me. I still am very sorry for what i have done to her and i still love her.

Answer 1

"(girls only)" means you only want girls to answer!

BTW, I am glad I didn't have to read that small novel you wrote...any way you could sum it up in 10 words or less next time???

Answer 2

My guess is that she is hoping you will get a new girlfriend so she won't have to feel guilty about the break up. The only other option is that she suspects it and is hoping she will bug you into admitting it. Could be this is the only way she knows how to relate to you as a 'friend' and not a 'boyfriend'-by teasing you. I don't really see how this could be any indication of her wanting to get back together though. However, we women are all different and this is just this woman's opinion. I am a 35 year old married woman. However I didn't get married until I was 30, so I did a lot of dating.

Good luck to you and your ex and your child!

Answer 3

You have broken her trust and that is hard to get back. If you are serious then keep trying and don't date or have contact with your other ex. As she gets bigger with her pregnancy and still sees you want her then it will help to win her trust back. Be her friend first, go to lamaze with her, go on walks with her, do romantic things but don't stiffle or stalk her. Gradually she may come around. She will be going through hormonal changes with the pregnancy and self esteem issues, be there as a friend for her first.

Answer 4

Your new ex is definitely jealous. She probably thinks that you were cheating on her with your old ex, so she's probably thinking that you'll get together with your old ex again.

When she teases about your "new gf", which you don't have, she probably truly thinks that you actually have a new girlfriend. maybe she's just telling you to move on, though.

Answer 5

shes jealous...she thinks that your going to lie to her again.When girls do that is b/c they really want to find out, or they want to keep hearing all the nice things you have to say about them!I feel like she may still like you, b/c if she is still worrried about another girl(u must still mean something to her).She really wants to find out the truth.Keep trying tell her that you dont have someone by the side...and if you really want her back, why dont you ask her for marriage.That would truly show her thatt you love her(yall r about to have a kid)Dont mess it up.Keep trying.Everything will be fine, have faith.But remember, if its meant to be it will happen!