well there is this guy in my class and hes absolutely obssessed with me the other day he kept touching me in a frindly way and it was all fun. then before calss was over he asked me if i wanted to be more than friends... and i said no that night at the football game(i go to most of them and he is on the football team) he didn't talk to me or say anything and he just made it really akward and so today in class he was tellin everyone in the calss that i am his and then he liked cradelled and dipped me and stared into my eyes.. although he dint kiss me i know its coming because he asked me to give a kiss on the cheek. I dont like him like that i like him as a friend and i tried telling him.. but he really didn't listen. .. and i think i am starting to like him. What should i do???... i dont want to kiss him
2006-10-03 14:40:24 · 4 answers · asked by jane doe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well im a guy and when a guy feels something very special for a girl and the girl dont like him, its really hard on the guy. Even if you dont like him or if you get a new boyfriend he still will care for you most likely. Just confront him sometime and talk it out, try to make him understand that you dont have the same feeling for him and figure a way to work it out somehow.
2006-10-03 14:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by mover1799 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=/ .. you don't like him.. but you think you're beginning to?
Don't you just hate it when you start freaking out for no reason.. or just because a guy is doing all sorts of stuff that you seem to blow things WAAY outta proportion?
Okay, I'll stop being mean. But I've been there. Hell, I think I'm still there. [The freaking out about guys part.]
First, seriously consider if you REALLY want things to progress. Then you will know what to do from there. You can either take the risk and hope for the best, or say 'no' now and stop anything more to happen.
To save yourself from freaking out even more, I advise you to decide ASAP.
I keep saying that you're just freaking out loads because my best friend kept telling me that and all of a sudden I just laughed it off because I realized that she was right.
THINK about what you really want, and follow your heart.
Cheesy?
But anyways, best of luck. I really do hope things will turn out for the best. Byes..
2006-10-03 14:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by xxeverlasting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get busy with something or someone else? He doesn't sound like a guy I would want to b around.
2006-10-03 14:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't kiss him next time he approaches you tell him that u don't appreciate him saying this junk and it makes every thing akward. tell him what u told us
Good luck
2006-10-03 14:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by brummondgirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋