i have this girl that likes me and i went on a couple dates with her to see how she is and now i dont want to date her.
2006-10-03 14:38:18 · 13 answers · asked by stephen m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you have to tell her that your not interested. if you want to stay friends with her then you might consider just taking the time to talk to her and tell her exactly what kind of relationship you want to have with her. to stay friends with her you must tell her that she is a great person but just not what your looking for as a girlfriend. make clear that you want to still hang out ( only if you want to ) and just see her as a friend.
2006-10-03 14:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking the world wouldn't that be an easy question to answer yourself. Any way i you do not want to date her than go up and tell her, writer her a note and tell, have a friend, email her, call her up and many more thing you could do.
2006-10-03 21:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by tropicalhawiia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever you do dont lead her on. politly explain to her that you dont want to date her but you still want to be friends and chill as buddies. then you can start spending less and less time if you want with her but dont make her feel bad or anything. just be nice and honest about it and there isnt anything else to do.
good luck :)
2006-10-03 21:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by mm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell her that you don't want to date her but dont be mean about it just explain that you just want to be friends for right now
2006-10-03 21:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by ~Katie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best if you be honest. Tell her that she is really nice and totally fun but you think it would be best if you were just friends. Remember if you tell her a lie, it could bite you in the butt later!
2006-10-03 21:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by Star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know honesty is the best be straight with her but nice and tell her you deont want to date but it would be nice to see you around sometime......
2006-10-03 21:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with her, man. Don't prolong something that has no future. She might be upset at first, but she will be thankful that you didn't lead her on for too long and then drop her.
2006-10-03 21:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by stacks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her down nicely. It will hurt her less. If she asked why tell her it's nothing she's done but you want to move on. It isn't working for you.
2006-10-03 21:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth if she is a real female she will understand tell her you see her more as a friend but not as a girlfriend but if she is psycho just avoid her or introduce her to somebody you do not like
2006-10-03 21:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by just anotha chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how it really is, that is the best thing you can do, Be very very honest. It will make it so you do not hurt her later.
2006-10-03 21:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋