Is it weird that I think my boyfriend is gay?

Question

I know he has never been with a guy but I can't shake the feeling that he is attracted to them. I mean, he's not the most manly man around...His effeminate ways kinda turn me off but he's lovely in general.
What should I do?

Answer 1

Believe it or not, some men listen to feminists and try to behave according to the feminist ideals in order to be successful with women.

Many feminists seek to erase differences between men and women, and they try to make everybody equal this way. And this means of course that according their ideal, men need to behave more like women and women need to behave more like men.

Check out if this is the case with your man. And if it's not, then indeed he may be a bi-sexual who likes both women and men.

Answer 2

Some gay people hide it until they are married.
Do not allow this to happen to you honey.
Maybe try and do some girl talk thing where you talk about famous ppl you find attractive and see what he thinks. You may get some more clues...

Also and this is very important to your thinking, is he a boob man? or face man? or whatever? Coz some guys find stuff attractive which can only be found on the female body, and then there are guys who like muscles etc. It is then that you should worry.

Last advice is when you tease him joking around call him gay and stuff like that and see how he reacts to people calling him gay. Always use alcohol as a truth drug so that he is being more emotional when you are talking to him about this.

Answer 3

No i do no longer think of he's gay stay with him! while he stated he's not used to women that shelter themselves, that's a compliment to you. i do no longer in all threat understand what that's approximately yet he probable dated hookers or something till now. I propose you hear to him and shave much less. He potential he likes you on your organic elegance, and he needs you to show it extra. additionally did you recognize the extra you shave the quicker it grows back? Or my entire suggestion could be horribly incorrect and he's gay i'm uncertain. till then look ahead to extra indicators if he's gay. sturdy success

Answer 4

Okay be careful. I had an ex who totally denied being gay, but I knew he was. I "accepted him for what he is" and blah blah blah. And today, he's the proudest, loudest homosexual I know. I'm serious. So long as you both know you love and are committed to eachother and no one else (especially other men on his part) then you should not worry. So long as you really do accept him... but just be sure he's not about to turn on you and become a queer.

Answer 5

Been there. One of the guys I dated came out of the closet years later. My ex is definently gay and he will come out of the closet eventually. You just know it. If the signs are there he most likely is.

Answer 6

I think you should break up with him and hopefully you can be friends. If you are writing this question, his effeminate manner obviously bothers you, even if he is not gay.

Answer 7

trust your gut, he probably is attracted but he might not even be aware of it. Society doesn't embrace gay people too much, so he is probably repressing any tendancies in that direction.

Answer 8

Ask him. tell him you'll be supportive either way. Tell him you'll love him and always be around, just you need to know.

Answer 9

My ex was exactly the same and i asked him if he was gay or bi and he denied it, but we woman know these things...Go with your gut instinct, its usually always right.

Answer 10

if u r nnot intrested in him i`m alaways der