Ok so i am 14 and i dont really know what to talk to guys about.. like what are some quick convo starters that will help break the ice. I think some people think i am so shy and quite but really.. I am LOUD AND FUNNY i just want to show everyone and espically the guys my true self.. but i need something to start a convo to get things going. Please help i will try everyones stuff just HELPP PLEASE any anwser is wanted
2006-10-03 14:36:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just need a conversation starter.. like when u walk up to a guy u know what do u say? like when ppl say whats up everyone alwasy says notheing.. what should i do?
2006-10-03 14:41:32 · update #1
Only because your a youging will I give you this (No offense) You want to talk to guys then the best advice is real simple be yourself. Smile A LOT. Be yourself. Be funny. Play the game. Now don't be to flamboyant where you attract every dude and his momma but you get me. BE YOU. Let him chase you. All girls have this power to make guys follow the ringer for them. Just be vocal and you'll get what you like & want in not time.
2006-10-03 14:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by Will Gotham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your 14 years old, you are still figuring your self and the world out. The only advice I can give you is don't force anything and be your self, don't be a fake, or a phony. Your obviously not comfortable with your self around these people yet, however it is very common at age 14. Your social side will blossom when you are around the right people and it will come out naturally, you won't evenhave to think about it.
2006-10-03 21:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by franklin d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Idk if this is really what youre looking for but one really cool pick-up line that I like is "Here's my library card, cause I'm checking you out!"
Or, since youre funny, try telling a joke, like "There were 4 men. 3 walked into a bar, the other ducked" (if you don't get that it means the metal pole kind of bay)
Another thing you could do is talk to them about stuff theyre interested in. If they play sports, congradulate them on how they played or talk to them about how tough the opponent was.
2006-10-03 21:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by cfschweppes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking, flirt, look up at him, I am loud too, and i just talk loud as i can when i want a guy to know something about me, like i wil be talling my friend, and he looks up at me and smiles!! So just try to talk to him!!
2006-10-03 21:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about anything! Just walk up and say hi, and introduce yourself. Be friendly, and be charming, like me lol.
2006-10-03 21:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. dont stress. belive me that doesnt help any. talk about sports, movies, music, even school if you have to. lol. just dont be shy. you cant live you life to the fullest if your shy. try it see what happens. what is there to lose.
2006-10-03 21:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Amanda Way♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him like one of your friends, but don't talk any "girl" stuff around him.
That's about it. Guys are people, too.
2006-10-03 21:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love a girl who approaches him. Be yourself, and be assertive.
2006-10-03 21:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by jayhind2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can talk 2 me
2006-10-03 21:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by coolguy looking at u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well pick a easy guy first to talk to like someone who isnt to hard to talk to. then take it from there
2006-10-03 21:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by racergrl67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋