I like a guy that goes on my bus. I see him usually. I want to get to know him, but I don't know what to say. No, I can't just go up to him nad say hi because it would be weird. Please help. Thanks!
2006-10-03 14:35:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sit by him on the bus and comment on his shirt or something
2006-10-03 14:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Katy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the best way to get to know someone! Talking to him is the ONLY way you'll get to know anything about him, short of hiring a private investigator.
The two of you have something in common already; you're on the same bus every day. Just get up some nerve, and sit near him at first. Later, you can start a conversation. You could ask if he's heard of something that happened in your local news, or nationally.
Unless it's storming outside, don't talk about the weather, cuz that's corny. Find something to discuss with him. Compliment something that he's wearing. Eventually, you will get enough nerve to ask him to coffee, then you can really have a conversation with him. Good luck.
2006-10-03 14:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax and smile. Sit next to him and say Hi. If you think it's too weird, then wait and suss him out. But a friendly face and a Hi can open many doors. He might just be waiting for you to show some interest.
It would make the bus ride go a lot faster.
Good luck.
2006-10-03 14:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bexcy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand what it is like being too timid or feeling awkward going up to a guy in a situation like this. Is there anyone you know that knows him? Anyone that can act as a "mediator" and set up a situation where you two can be introduced? Try that out. Or have someone tag along that will make you feel more comfortable introducing yourself and you both can talk to him.
2006-10-03 14:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? nothing's weird about saying hi to a guy on a bus.
If your that hung up about human interactions, wow!
anyway, you can always walk by him and drop something, a book or whatever, if the guy is a slight bit interested or just a gentleman which in both cases makes it worth you getting to know him, he'll talk to you, there, ice is broken and you live hapilly ever after.
2006-10-03 14:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, because I was in a similar situation at camp. Smile at him first. Try to find out his hobbies by observation or send a friend to talk to him. Saying hi wouldn't be weird if you were to be confident about it, plus it drops a good hint. Good luck!
2006-10-04 08:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Squeaky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would it be wierd? just go up to him and sit near him, and tell him uve seen im around and ask him his name and tell him urs and get off a conversation. my friend kept holding off on asking this girl out saying it would be wierd, it took him four months to do it. and theyve been a couple for a month and he hasnt kissed her for the same reason. wierd isnt an excuse, go for it or dont. theres no wierd, u wont get anywhere wondering if itll be wierd or not.
2006-10-03 14:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by kkong25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldnt be THAT weird if you said hi.. would it? Well if it would try to get the seat right across from him.. if he is in any of ur classes u could be like did u get the hw? or OMG i hate our math teacher... but thats not always the case so u could also say.. are thoes space pants? he replies no.. u say oh well ur butt is OUTTA THIS WORLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-03 14:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some common ground. if he's listening to CD's/ipod on the bus, ask him what kind of music he likes. if he plays a sport, talk about sports. anything to get a conversation going.
2006-10-03 14:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cannot walk up and say hi, do it the best other way know to man, send a friend to tell him these word: she likes you, it not too much and will be well excepted, it is not a marriage proposal
2006-10-03 14:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋