What does it mean when you break up with your dude, but then start to tease him about a "new girlfriend". I try to tell my ex that i don't have another girlfriend and that i am only interested in getting back with her, but she keeps playin like i'm lying about my feelings and about having a new girl friend. Could she be happy that i found a "new girlfriend" or could she be jealous or could she want me back but doesn't know how to tell me or could it be something else? By the way, i DO NOT have another girlfriend, i still love my ex with all my heart and i only want to work things out with her and no one else and that is the truth. But i need a womans point of view on this. Any help is greatly needed. Thanks Oh by the way, she is pregnant with my child and i want to be there for her but she seems to make is clear that she doesn't want to work things out between us but she still is playing this game. I'm confused !!!
2006-10-03 14:33:34 · 21 answers · asked by drew46759 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What i did for her to break up with me was i was trying to keep a FRIENDSHIP with my ex behind her back. I apologized for what i did, i told her that i was wrong for what i did. I already had a serious conversation about working things out and she tells me no and still teases me about my "new gf". This is so confusing
2006-10-03 14:45:38 · update #1
well, you are right, she is playing a game. Sounds real mature, so glad you 2 decided to reproduce and add more drama to our world.
2006-10-03 14:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is not playing a game. Maybe she wants you to get on with your life because she doesn't want a relationship with you anymore. Maybe the two of you can be friends - you will have to find a way to work that out since you have a child together. Is sounds like she is pushing you to go out with another woman so take the hint and back off of her. Give her some space and stop trying to "get her back".
2006-10-03 21:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is givin you a hard time is what she is doing. Maybe this is her way of making sure you really want her. Maybe she is confused too. One of the times she says something about you having another GF say yes and see her reaction....then you might just find out the truth. But then again, it could just be her hormones too. I have had 3 kids and man can that change a woman's thinking process....Just try to be there for her and let her know that you love and care for her and you want to be there for the both of them no matter what....maybe if you try slowly working it out you might get somewhere. Its better than nothing ya know..
2006-10-03 21:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Misty C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds about as confused as you are. Sadly, it sounds like she's trying to end the relationship and this teasing about a "new girlfriend" is just an excuse. She feels hurt that she's pregnant and you're still friends with your ex. It's easier for her to cut you off now than deal with the relationship drama as well as being pregnant.
She's got a lot on her mind right now so she will act crazy sometimes. That's normal. Keep trying to be there for her and show her that you will be a responsible dad and that you care about her. She'll need you more than she knows right now when the baby arrives. Of course your child will need his/her father too.
Offer to go to her Dr.'s appointments to hear the baby's heart or see the baby on ultrasound.
Let her catch you reading a pregnancy magazine or a book about babies.
Help her look after herself when she's feeling sick.
Tell her she's beautiful.
Tell her that you want to be a family with her and your child.
Tell her you've given up being friends with your old ex (for good) so that you can save your family. Mean it.
I said a lot of harsh things to my baby's father when I was pregnant. Our son is 4 months old now and we're still together. A lot of the bitchy attitude is due to pregnancy hormones. Pregnant women take it out on their guy usually because they're pissed off that his life doesn't seem to be changing as quickly as hers'. Be there for her and show her that you're willing to step up and be a Father.
You need to cut off contact with your ex that you're still "friends" with. That's one of the ways to "step-up." You can't have both women in your life, even with the one being "just a friend." It will drive your baby's mom crazy.. even if she says it's ok. It's never ok.
Good luck.
2006-10-03 23:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is really confused herself or maybe she is trying to string you along incase she decides she wants you back later. Why did she break up with you? That is an important piece of information we are lacking. I hope things work out for you and please do not get yourself involved with anyone until you are over her if you do not get back together. Maybe you should let her know that too again but be firm about it. You both need to figure out what you really want and let it be that. Good luck on the baby.
2006-10-03 21:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by country girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is either really hormonal, or really mixed up! The fact that she is asking you about other women says she is interested in you. If you love her & you are having a child together, sit down with her & tell her to cut out the games! Lay it on the line & ask her to be adult enough to do the same.
2006-10-03 21:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got no clue on how to help u (I'm only 12) but i really hope things work out for u. and if yall don't get back together then stay her friend so u can help with the baby
2006-10-03 21:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Heather D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not giving her what she needs. Shes so emotional at the moment and she will be acting like a drama queen. Take what she says but always defend yourself by saying sweet things like ''Girlfriend? Only if you get back with me etc....Be doting and treat her like a princess. She is playing games but only because she loves you and wants you back but isnt sure on what your thinking.
2006-10-03 21:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably is jealous at the thought that you may have a girlfriend and you are denying it. so she doesnt want to get hurt by getting back with you. but if she is like that, it means that she still wants you. all you have to do is prove to her that you are not playing games with her, and dont have someone else. once she recognizes that, she will let her guard down.
2006-10-03 21:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you do to her to make her break up with you?maybe she doesnt like you right now because you made her mad,but when the baby comes she will have a change of heart.she is probably wants to see how deep your love is for her.or i hate to say it but maybe she has doubts about who the father of her child is and she wants to push u into messing around so she can use that against you.(i hope thats not the case but it could happen)
2006-10-03 21:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by nova44307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wants you back BUT she doesnt at the same time. What broke u up would be a good question to ask you. It almost sounds like you did something aweful and she wants you back but she knows it's not worth it? That's what i'd say at least, let her know that you love her that's all you can do.
2006-10-03 21:39:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋