k. so i've asked this question a few times trying to get a veriation of answers but since the last time i asked a few things have happend. so lest's start from the begining...k so there is this boy at skool that i rly like and we used to be really good friends but then some girl found out that i liked him and told him how i felt so slowly he stopped e-mailing/talking to me and then a few yrs later (last summer) he started e-mailing me again...and when skool started he talked to me but that only lasted about 2wks. then it went back down to just e-mailing me and now i barely even get that...i rly like him and i wish he felt the same i try to tell my self that i don't like him and i thought that maybe if i told others i didn't like him anymore and it got to him than maybe he wouldn't feel so akward (if that was the prob.) and he'd talk to me.. now we don't have any classes 2gether do u think that might be part of it? plz..help!!!
2006-10-03 14:33:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A couple of rules that have gotten me through life...
1) Don't burn bridges.
2) Don't play head games (Sometimes they backfire).
Be honest and up front with him. Tell him how much you like him, and how his behavior is bothering you. Tell him that if he is not interested in you romantically or if he has found someone else, that is OK with you (assuming that it really is OK with you), but you would still like to be his friend. Tell him that if he has been really busy, so much so that he can barely take five minutes to send you a message via email, that is OK, but you would like to hear from him more often. Tell him that however he feels, and whatever he has going on in his life, you respect it, but you still want to be his friend.
After you have told him that, move on with your own life. If you find someone you like just as much or better, then stick with him. If you don't, then if he pulls his head out of is hindquarters, then maybe you can work things out.
The problem with telling your friends that you aren't interested in him anymore is that when it gets back to him, he might just believe it, and not contact you anymore. You might inadvertantly mess up something that was going in your favor. If nothing else, you might find yourself second-guessing, wondering if the trick might have backfired, regardless of whether it did or not. The best thing is always to play it straight. That way, if things don't work out between you two, you can't blame yourself.
2006-10-03 14:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by elchistoso69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email him and be honest with him. tell him that you like him and if he doesnt feel the same way he should just be honest and tell you. then you can start building a friendship again and get it out of the way. Tell him in the email that if he just thinks of you as a friend that is fine and you can live with that but you dont want to lose him as a friend. If he considers you to be a friend he should respect you for being honest and he will still be your friend. If he backs away from you he isnt much of a friend and there is no loss because he obviously isnt paying attention to you now..
I hope this helps and good luck..
2006-10-03 14:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar,
It sounds like this guy may care but is afraid to take the big step and flat out ask ya ..... OR he is easily distracted and the Cartoons are interfearing with his e-mail time........ Either way I think you need to learn alittle more about him before you go and poke him with a sharp stick....it may be he's just shy ...or perhaps he has another girl your not aware of ..... Do your research before you go jumping into to the deep end.
Good Luck
2006-10-03 14:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl, It sounds like we are in the same boat(kinda)I liked a guy at work and told some people that i thought he was cute and all, and word got back to him and he asked me about it...the problem: he's GAY!!Though I like him as a friend too..so we decided to be friends and now i never hear from him, if I text him he'll text me back and I talk to him at work but that's it..I know he wants to be friends but I think he's unsure of it..so just give him, some time and after a while, maybe he'll start talking to you again!! good luck!
2006-10-03 14:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by confusedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to relax... He probably started liking you again cause you were givin him his space. Don't email him over and over again. If you pass him in the hall way, just glance a say hey. Don't seem desperate! He'll come back around. But when he does, still seem distant.... DON'T SEEM DESPERATE! guys hate that, of all ages
2006-10-03 14:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by :::Christina:::: 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 22:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be really bored with your life to not have any better hobbies than obssessing over boyz...how pitiful...kidz like I always say, dont do crack!
2006-10-03 14:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by stupidreplier1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should get over him .. he knows that you like him he should give u a chance and if not maybe he reallys doesn'tlike u ...findsomeone new that's what i do!! bye
2006-10-03 14:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well........you need to tell him about that not go on yahoo and talk about it he needs to know what he is doing i know im the black doctor Phill im nice like that
2006-10-03 14:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by mc hops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal for it to be awkward if he doesnt like you so dont sweat it. its not lke ur going 2 marry him, so dont worry
2006-10-03 14:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by Night visions 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋