i know deep down my parents love me, but the thing is they dont like me. know what i mean? they mutter to themselves about me and they complain and they yell at me for the stupidest things and they always talk about how every other teenager is better or does this or that...its annoying and sad. i cant be perfect or change myself easily...but they hate me....
2006-10-03 14:28:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Some parents aren't very good at expressing to their children that it's the things they DO that they don't like, not that they don't like THEM.
It could be they are just having a hard time right now, dealing with a lot of things going on, maybe financial problems, etc... and they need for you to grow up a bit more quickly. Help out with things instead of making things worse.
Do you help with dishes, housework, and things like that?
Do you try to keep from throwing things on the floor, creating more work for somebody else? Just look around you and see what you could do to make things a bit easier for them. They are just people, too. And they can't be perfect, either.
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2006-10-03 14:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom has told me she wished i died and show told me those exact words i love you but i don't like you its just something you have to get used to eventually as you get older they will see you different and treat you with more respect, don't let it get to you just make sure you do good and school and do good for yourself, let them know no matter how bad that they mad you feel that you were still able to accomplish your goals, don't stress it to much and if you feel that you can't deal with confront them and ask them why they treat you this way, or suggest family therapy keep your head up high and don't let anyone including your family bring you down, since they say every other teenager is better than make sure you do the best that you can to prove them wrong but most importantly do it for you self...
2006-10-03 21:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tiffany..tiffany...tiffany...i'm not a parent but i'm old enough to be one, sorta...here's the truth of the matter...your parents are here to be your "parents" they're not here to be your friend...they are here to help you be the best person that you can be whether you like all the decisions they make or not........it's not easy being a teenager and it's not easy being a parent either....trust me when i say this..please....you will one day look back and understand why your'e parents act the way they do...trust me !!!!....if you try to better understand your parents,or anyone for that matter, more times that not, they will try to better understand you!!!!
2006-10-03 21:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by michael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have been there. I thank it was my parents didnt like what I was doing, not me but my actions. Just an idea write them a letter and leave another piece (get a note book) tell them how you feel and ask them to write you back....see how that works
2006-10-03 21:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by Bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? When you get 18 and find a job move out. If it will be awhile, see if you can stay with a relative or something.
2006-10-03 21:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by devinshell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont all parents do that?? they think evey kid is better, my parents are the same with me and my sister they always say that i'm not like someone else that my mom or dad knows they still like you i doubt the HATE you, hate is such a strong word....
2006-10-03 21:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its an adolescent stage. parents fight with kids, kids fight with parents. they expect more, want more, dont understand you at all. believe me my parents 'dont like me' either cause of that, they think i change cause of other people i hang around when really im being myself. dont let them get you down and try a little harder to fit their demands, but dont over due it cause this stage will pass
g00d luck
2006-10-03 21:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't hate you, they just have high expectations for you, just be yourself and maybe the next time a comment is made you can confront them and say that it really hurts to hear that and that they should love & accept you for you and not because your like so & so's kid
2006-10-03 21:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor Baby..........try changing your attitude, sweetie, and be a more positive person. I am sure your parents have their side of the story.
2006-10-03 21:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling they dont hate you they mite be disapointed yes but they love you it is a parents job and they do it with satisfaction try being affectionate with them.
2006-10-03 21:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by Emma G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋