i was dating my ex for almost 3 years and we broke up because he said that he cheated and doesn't deserve me. now he says he didnt he just didnt kno n e easier way to get out of the relationship b/c he wanted to see what else was out there (we're only 17) now that we are both dating somebody else he says that he wants me back and he still loves me and honestly i kinda still have feelings for him and another thing we are in 2 different states that border each other. i like my current bf but he says that he likes me better than his new gf and now he realizes that i am want he truly wants. his family loves me and my family loves him
2006-10-03 14:23:43 · 15 answers · asked by just anotha chick 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first he lied to you after 3 years of relationship. he broke up with you and didnt even tell you the true reason behind it...if you think you can trust him again, go ahead, make up....but only if you believe it might work, dont do it coz your family likes him...
2006-10-03 14:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. you are 17 (im 16) so really, 3 years must have been long... for u and ur ex-bf.. highschool love usualy lasts shorter.. If he isnt doing anything about wanting u back, maybe he doesnt really really want you back? maybe he is having trouble with his current gf? I dont know.. but you are in 2 different states... and you are young.. i say you wait.. because he lives far away, and he has a new gf, he cheated on you, and broke up with u (saying he doesnt deserve you) he seems like he has lots of excduses for everything...
2006-10-03 21:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell u whats right for you except you. I personally wouldnt take the guy back. if he was such a goober to have left you in the 1st place (and not even be honest about why to begin with) then who's to say he wont do the same thing again. I say just move on, but really its up to you
2006-10-03 21:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't just jump back into a relationship with him until he proves to you that HE DESERVE you back ...Don't give in so easily if you do He is going to feel like he can do it all the time and he got you wrapped around his finger !! And he's still young I really don't think the playa has left yet....
2006-10-03 21:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur x bf just needs to get over u...honestly if he said that he cheated whe he didnt then hes not worth it...he needed to tell u the truth...u both need to move on...ur new bf may be right and defiantely the parents thing is good if they like u cuz my bfs rents dont like me and i didnt do anything to them...they just dont like my bf having a gf cuz im taking away their oldest...weve been dating for a year so having parents like u is good trust me...
2006-10-03 21:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by Shelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a ploy for some nooky. Don't fall for it.
If he cheated on you before, and he's saying this to you now when he has a girlfriend, obviously not much about him has changed. He didn't deserve you then, and he still doesn't.
2006-10-03 21:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by Deleted 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be emotionally screwed again? What if something better does come along and he runs off again? If he's not chaseing you, he dosnt want you back....I'm in exactly the same situation and i'm no longer waiting....
2006-10-03 21:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk you're only 17. see in a few years if thats still what you want. and besides, hes in another state. and if hes gunna lie to break up with you... if he really cared about your feelings he woulda told you the truth. cuz honesty is what makse a relationship and it really says something if he had to lie to get out of it...
2006-10-03 21:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by Gina Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sounds like a ploy to get some putang to me. Forget about him and move on.
2006-10-03 21:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're only 17...my only answer is to be careful & take your time w/your current boyfriend. all i got to say is just move w/your current b/f, forget the ex & just take your time.
2006-10-03 21:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by sha_allen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋