i asked everyone what to do if you have a stepdad who hits you and basically all of you said to call the cops. i threatend him with calling the cops and i seriously look like i got hit with a truck right now. i know your all gona tell me to call the police right now but what if im not exactly ready to. and i would never admit it to people i no but im really scared because this guy isnt joking around. is running away an option? answer or mail me
2006-10-03 14:22:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
is he on drugs? your mother should be ashamed for keeping that guy around, how about confront her first? then no matter what she says, call the police and go stay with a family member.
2006-10-03 14:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you know you real father, but when my 1st. wife split up, I always told my daughter, if her stepfather hit her in and uncommon way to call me and it happened but when I was finished with him, he watched his hand very closely. Running away will not solve your problem, calling your father might help or grand parents, still calling the cops is the best thing to do, don't let him hit you, yes its hard to do but in the end you will know you did the right thing in protecting yourself and if I could I would go to your aid, I hate people that beat kids, disciplining is one thing beating is another, know I am on your side, you will grow to be older and if you do nothing about it, it will haunt you for life, believe you me society will deal with him, but don't run away in the long run it may hurt you more than he ever will, good luck and remember deckape is with you
2006-10-03 21:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by man of ape 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been hurt especially more than once you need help now and you need to do something. Just running away can also be very dangerous so you should have a family member to go to. You should report it so that he can't just come after you. This often gets worse so be very careful and get help. Call anonymously if you have to but call.
2006-10-03 21:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by beek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to school and tell them what is happening. By law they have to report it. If you are in danger and it sounds like you are you will be removed immediately. Don't be ashamed or afraid to go to one of your teachers, a counselor, coach, or a principal. They will help you. It isn't your fault that your stepdad reacts so violently.
2006-10-03 21:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to the hospital. I know you said you are not ready to go to the cops, but if he's never going to stop. You need to get help. If you are not ready to talk to the cops, call a crisis hotline. It can be anonomous and they will listen to you if you just need to talk. I encourage you to talk to SOMEONE! Don't people notice that you have bruises? Sorry if I offend you but your mom isn't a good mom if she's letting that go on. Would you let your daughter get beat up by your husband if you had one? My dad hit my mom when he was drunk all the time and she never left him. I swore to myself that I would never let that happen to me. I told my husband when we started dating that if he layed even one hand on me even once, I was gone. I think that you should take a stand and talk to the cops. Show them your bruises, once you tell them, they will not ever let him touch you again, I promise. Please, please, please talk to them. Running away won't solve this, it will only leave you homeless and alone, please tell someone what's going on.
2006-10-03 21:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by speedy_me18 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops. He definately has a problem and if you don't do something, it wont stop.
2006-10-03 21:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by Unshaken Faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE call another adult male who can help you or call 911.
YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE EMBARRASSED ABOUT!!!
HE IS THE BAD GUY!
Just look at all the support you are getting and we are complete strangers. People will help you.
2006-10-03 21:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever to protect yourself.
Tell everybody you know what is happening.
Ask friends to help you.
Run and hide till he is exposed.
Then, do what ever to protect yourself AFTER he is exposed.
2006-10-03 21:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by maguyver727 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your mother and real dad? Sweetie you need to tell someone, this could get nastier as time goes on.. please seek help
2006-10-03 21:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mt emai is sent and my prayers are with you. please you have to stand up for yourself, even if it's only asking somene else to stand up for you.
2006-10-03 21:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Marysia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋