I was talking to my friend and I know that a guy has got to play to what a woman wants. I argued "Why not a woman play to what we want?" I'm not down with the faking and pretending when it comes to what I want as a man. I like to play by my rules, if it don't attract then it don't attract the women. Society is really geared toward what a woman wants, it's not a man's world. The only bad thing is women don't know what they want. Therefore, the world doesn't know what it wants. Some people might be upset with this statement. I'm opinionated and I'm not trying to offend anybody it's just the way I feel and see things.
2006-10-03 14:15:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suspect that it will always be that way. We have it, you want it. We know this fact! We try to juice it for all it is worth, no pun intended. If I just want to get laid, that is easy. I am not looking for love, been there and done that, but I hate one night stands, been there and done that too. Somewhere in between is what I want. Until, I find it, no one is in my panties.
2006-10-03 14:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think that you are more likely to attract a girl if you stand up for yourself and calmly state what YOU want, and work it out from there. If you are always kissing up to her, and never have an opinion of your own, then many women view that as spineless and unattractive (just look at some of the answers here on Y!A if you don't believe me), and leave you for some jerk who has a backbone. This is part of the reasons that nice guys finish last.
2006-10-03 14:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women do know what they want and realize how hard it is to find and decide to lower their standards which can create confusion. The man could have one thing that the woman is looking for, but it leaves her wanting the rest of the package and when she notices that there is nothing else, she moves on. It's not that women are complicated to their self, but they challenge their self along with others.
2006-10-03 14:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what world you live in I have many friends and some parts of my life where I did play by the guy rules then they want to be a control freak and men think they can treat you any way they want and then they loose their respect for a real lady ! We are just tired of the Bullsh@#t!!!
SO GET OFF IT !!!
2006-10-03 14:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, when you say that you as guys know what you want think again. half of the time you guys say crap that makes no sense to us girls, you put us girls down when you have a crappy day, you love to pretend that we are the only girls in your life oh yeah and for most guys cheating means sex vs. the girls definition of kissing or making out as well as sleeping with someone. and why do guys have to play by the womens rules? because most women put their foot down and say that is enough or make a guy treat them with decency and respect. a guy likes his own world where he does everything rt., nothing wrong, where he is the hero yet he acts like a jerk-he wants everything his way, now! society is not favoring sides but it is your mentality that makes you believe that, oh and teh world actually knows what it wants and goes and gets it vs. most guys who cannot committ or do something nice or make up their mind about the future because they are too scared! plus girls who know when to put their foot down will get what they want because they are not letting someone else control them-they are their own person and that is what most guys like even if they dont want to admit it!
2006-10-03 14:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In RPG kind video games humans will continuously play any gender they pick. They continuously supply quite a lot of explanations of their security, typically those are hilarious--"I do not wish to stare at a dude's butt" or some thing like that. Seriously, wut?? At any price, I play an RPG and I play simplest male characters. My feminine roommate additionally performs and he or she has ordinarily feminine toons, but in addition performs dudes. Another character is a person, however performs each as good. I believe it is all as much as the person.
2016-08-29 08:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women know what they want. your argument there is false. Part of the problem is that you want to play them. this indicates manipulation and using. nobody wants that.
But OK. they are playing the guys as well.
They know what they want, and it is exactly like they are shown on TV, the Huxtables. They also know that they likely will have to settle for what they can get. Sanford and Son. The Dr. Huxtables have the women play to them. He has the education, and wealth. A success who can give that to her and her kids. Sonny Sanford has got to scam, wheedle and beg for any woman.
Which one are you.
2006-10-03 14:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i agree with you on the part where women doesn't know what they want... I never know what i want! but its more like u want so many things u dont know which one you want.... And i feel that guys playing to the women to get them is natural beause women loves to be won over by guys and sweet things... its not that girls dont play to get guys, its just that i guess in the society its more manly for the guy to make the move and girls are just in love wiht manly guys that likes them enough to do such things to win them over... womens just like that and guys want to get women they like, so they do it.
2006-10-03 14:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is 50/50. Good luck on finding a woman that fits your needs!!
2006-10-03 14:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by nattabomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything worth having requires a bit of effort. If a woman is not worth it to you, maybe you should try men. life is compromise, get over yourself. You arent so perfect you know.
2006-10-03 14:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋