The typical boy troubles... I'd love to hear some guys' opinions! <3 Don't you love the mixed signals

Question

Yeah. Female freshman in high school, the usual.
Let's call this new boy... uhh... Brad. Because he's cute.
And, uhh... hm. Well basically, I've never had a boyfriend. I'm smart, athletic, tall, and blonde. Gasp. xD I'm shy when I'm uncomfortable. The background on me.
He's incredibly cute. And sweet. And funny, although I don't talk to him /that/ much. Unfortunately, he has girls all over him, and he dances with them.
I'd be content to have him as eye candy. Really. The thing is - he's the one who actually talks to me! He's come up to me and told me he loved me before, and said hi cutely and awkwardly. Then at the freshman dance, he was dancing with 23495 girls. Gasp. o: And I was dancing with my friends, the usual: he came up to me and started mimicking my moves - exaggeratedly suggestive. xD And the whole night, he was trying to catch my eye, but subtly about it.
Unless I'm just being too hopeful.
Whaddaya think? Is my head being screwed with, or does he actually care? o:

Answer 1

he cares, you two should go out, somewhere where you two can be together without other people coming between you. I am sure without a shadow of a doubt that he digs you, you should get to know one another who knows what your futures will be like. :)

Answer 2

those are mixed signals. each and every each and every now and then friendships have diverse dynamics. each and every each and every now and then pals have an fairly flirty dynamic and that would nicely be the case. Flirting should be exciting. Why doesn't someone opt to have exciting with their buddy? it would clarify why he each and every each and every now and then ignores you round different ladies; he would no longer desire them to be certain what your courting is like. it really is likewise plausible that he does merely likes you and there is a especially straightforward attempt. next time you sense like he's ignoring you even as he's talking to a lady as you walk previous very casually walk precise as a lot as him and say whats up how are you? Are we nonetheless staggering out after college? completely conventional for a buddy to quit interior the hallway even as they see their buddy and say hi. Now you recognize you buddy so watch his reaction to you no longer allowing him to dismiss you. If he acts conventional then i'd say you could nicely be be on to something the following yet pay attention of a flirty man or woman. it really is amazingly straightforward to change into attentive to flirting as emotions once you like it to be. If he acts diverse then i'd say that you've a buddy who quite quite likes you as a buddy.

Answer 3

Is he a player? Are you looking for someone to go out with and have a great time or a relationship?
I dont think you are being too hopeful... He might be just flirting wiht u if he has tons of other girls to flirt with... or he might be just fishing around looking around for someone that likes him.. dont gve ur hopes up! but then u should still flirt and talk to him... just in case.. u never know..! but he seems like he likes you

Answer 4

i think freshman year is pretty good so far. anyway he might like you or he might be playing you. you have to let go of your shyness and talk to him. keep up what your doing now and he'll give up on what ever he's doing. try talking to him your self don't get your friends to do it for you that just makes us guys mad. also if "Brad" isn't really straight with you he's being a sissy and he wants you to talk to him so he doesn't have to break the ice.

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

you have something the other girls dont, you are not throwing yourself at his feet and yes that is very attractive, best wishes

Answer 6

i'd hit it.

yeah just go for it, you're young. im sure brad likes you.

Answer 7

just ask the guy out for god sakes!