This girl is always flirting with my guy. It really gets me mad, I told him how I felt and he said that he would tkae care of it. She is so mean she keeps on doing it what should I do?
2006-10-03 14:01:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in your situation before. Well I wouldn't say you were a "jealous girlfriend" because he would have re-acted the same exact way. First thing: you handled it well. You went to him and not her. Thats a good thing and shows a sign of maturity. However, guys aren't like girls. If my boyfriend told me he didn't like how a certain guy flirted with me I would tell the guy to back off some, because some people may be getting the wrong idea. Guys on the other hand don't say things like that. They say stuff like, "My girl don't like you all up on me/flirting with me/etc" Which is probably what your guy may have done. If that is the case and you said "she is so mean mean she keeps on doing it" then she is a little girl who likes to play games. You are obviously by your reaction more mature than her so therefore you shouldn't let her know that it bothers you. You've done your part, now its up to him man to step up and be a man. Let him know once again that you don't like it, except this time be firm. Very firm, get ugly/nasty if you have to. Pull out what I like to call "woman" tricks and play with his head a little. Tell him that its in a way disrespecting you as his girlfriend to allow this other to continue to flirt with him. Tell him to put himself in your shoes. He wouldn't like it. And as far as this girl is concerned, act like it doesn't bother you. She has to flirt with him to get his attention because she knows that you are the one has the ball in the court. Not her, and when you see her flirting with him, just be calm, look at her smile, (kindness kills people especially mean people) refer to his pet name (baby, sweetie, etc) and walk away with him. That will be the perfect slap in her face! :D Hope this helps!
2006-10-03 14:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, he's your partner, put the hoe back in her box...Stand up to her and tell her to back off. Your boy shouldnt be encouraging this either, is he?
2006-10-03 14:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to her and tell her you are tired of her flirting with your boyfriend and to go and get her own!!!!
2006-10-03 14:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it...again...........if the relationship is good, communication should not be a problem
2006-10-03 14:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by *S* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap that biatch silly!
2006-10-03 14:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋